Domestic Violence Stole My Kids

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Domestic violence and emotional abuse often come together. An abuser will emotionally abuse his victim as a form of control. The emotional abuse can sometimes be harder to recognise as the victim slowly looses confidence and self belief.   A mum shares her domestic violence story with you:   I was sixteen years old when [...]

Domestic Violence Survivor Speaks Out : Her kids Saved Her

It is not uncommon for a victim of domestic violence to have already witnessed an abusive relationship. It is also common for a survivor to become a victim again.  A mum shares anonymously her domestic violence story with you:  Abusive relationships were normal to me, my father beat my mother throughout my childhood, some would agree that ending up in an abusive relationship and suffering emotional abuse was how the cycle repeats itself. He was eleven years older than me but at the age of seventeen I fell in love with him. Due to circumstances beyond my control I moved in with him, I had been inhospital for twelve weeks due to a shattered ankle, as I was no longer able to work my parents could not afford to have me live with them.  The emotional abuse began first, the pyscholical damage destroyed my inner soul. He beat me so bad one night I was took to my mothers house. My nose was flat across my cheek and I stood a bloody mess. She turned her back on me. He laughed, even my own mother didn't want me.  I became so used to the pysical abuse it left me immune to the pain from being beaten. Chained to the living room radiator he would beat me, while raining down emotional abuse, threatening to kill my mother, my sisters. He was sent to prison, I escaped.  I should of been able to spot abusive relationships a mile away, yet I would run straight into the arms of another abuser who I would go on to have two children with. After a few more years of emotional abuse I had taken all I could and my children gave me the courage to leave. We have never looked back.  This post was written by anonymously by a mum in the hope of helping other victims of domestic violence or emotional abuse. Please take the time to offer your support and share your views.  Other Related Posts:  Domestic Violence stole my kids  Domestic Violence & Sexual Abuse Destroyed Me

  It is not uncommon for a victim of domestic violence to have already witnessed an abusive relationship. It is also common for a survivor to become a victim again. A mum shares anonymously her domestic violence story with you: Abusive relationships were normal to me, my father beat my mother throughout my childhood, some [...]

She had a brain tumour and it was big and it was angry

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This post is an anonymous guest post*   2011 was a strange year   Lots of not very nice things happened to close friends and to us too.   However my friend Louise was dealt the worst of all, her attitude and strength has made everything else seem so very unimportant.   Back in June, we [...]

Moms’ Depression, Impact on Kids

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  Who cares for me? Why nobody understands me? Why do my kids don’t listen to me?  These are some of the nagging questions that a mom feels when she suffers from Depression.   And as the popular saying goes, “When mom is unhappy, everybody is unhappy.” Therefore, it has become vital for all moms [...]

My kids were taken into care thanks to domestic violence

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This post is an anonymous guest post I thought I had meet the man of my dreams, I was just 16years old living in a hostel after being kicked out of home. I fell in love quickly moved in with him and fell pregnant with my little girl. He first hit me when I was [...]

Raped When I Was Asleep – I Was 11 Years Old

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Raped When I Was Asleep – I Was 11 Years Old It all started when I was 11,  I was sexually molested by a friends brother whilst I was asleep. I woke up but pretended to be asleep petrified Ive never told a soul to this day. Then when I was 13 my family was [...]

I put my hands around his throat and made him drop the knife

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This Post is an anonymous guest post I was just a teenage when I suffered from domestic violence. It was the sought of thing you read in magazines and assumed it happened to married, weak women, with too many children to do anything about it. The first time it happened to me, to be honest, [...]

The day I found out HE had been hurting my baby

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I honestly don’t know where to start. It’s so hard for me to get this all out there after keeping it quiet for almost 3 years. My soon to be ex husband first hit me a week after he came home from hospital after fighting pneumonia and [...]

I thought I was going to kill my baby

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This post is an anonymous guest post   Im sitting here with my 4 and a half month old son fast asleep upstairs, my fiancé playing xbox and me chatting away to some lovely mummies on the Supermums group .. sounds so lovely and settled yes ? Well things haven’t been this settled lately.. here [...]

Rest In Peace: Dedicated to our very brave mum & her Angel

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  I love what I do, yet despise it at times. Along with the laughter and fun comes the tears and the heartaches.   While I may never get to meet so many of my mums, they all hold a special place in my heart. I come to know them and their babies and children [...]

Death of an Innocent: Drink & Driving Kill

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  Death of an Innocent: I went to a party, mum, I remember what you said. You told me not to drink, mum, so I drank coke instead. I really felt proud inside, mum, even though the others said I should. I know I did the right thing, mum, I know you are always right. [...]

I scrubbed myself with bleach after being raped on the bus

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I scrubbed myself with bleach after being raped on the bus My childhood had never been a easy ride I was placed in foster care at age off 12 at 13 I was in a children home my life never seemed to be easy always ups and downs I’m 1 of 4 children me and [...]

My experience of Glue ear – a guest post

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Image via Wikipedia This post is an anonymous guest post Well I suppose for me it all started 10 years ago well thats when I first noticed a problem with my hearing. I used to sit at the back of class rooms during school lessons mainly due to bullying. This is when I noticed I [...]

Abused At 12 With A Mum On Cocaine

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Abused At 12 With A Mum On Cocaine I had a happy childhood growing up, just me and my brother although we both had different dads and had a stepdad bringing us up who was and still is fantastic although my mum is no longer with him. My childhood all changed when I was 12 [...]

Living with serious pre-menstrual disorder

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    It can take years to realise that your pre-menstrual symptoms are abnormal – in my case, about twenty. Acute depression, suicidal feelings, paranoia, pent-up anger – I just assumed that all the other girls & women felt this way too, & hid theirs really well! Eventually I compared notes with friends, & discovered [...]

He slashed my face with a piece of broken glass

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I have something to share with you , I am not trying to scare anyone but want to make you all aware . This is very long post and I just want you to read it and please be aware at this time of year how not [...]

Bullying at school poem

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This post is an anonymous guest post   Here I sit at a table on my own Wish the bell would ring so I could go home I don’t want to be the highlight of every horrid joke Dont want to be the person the one they always poke Dont want to have my hair [...]

My dads last words to me were F@@k Off as he died

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I miss him everyday. Its been just over 6 years since he passed away and there is never a day where I don’t think about whether he would be happy for me. Let me explain why I was so close to him. I can remember my Mom [...]