Domestic Violence Stole My Kids

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Domestic violence and emotional abuse often come together. An abuser will emotionally abuse his victim as a form of control. The emotional abuse can sometimes be harder to recognise as the victim slowly looses confidence and self belief.   A mum shares her domestic violence story with you:   I was sixteen years old when [...]

Domestic Violence Survivor Speaks Out : Her kids Saved Her

It is not uncommon for a victim of domestic violence to have already witnessed an abusive relationship. It is also common for a survivor to become a victim again.  A mum shares anonymously her domestic violence story with you:  Abusive relationships were normal to me, my father beat my mother throughout my childhood, some would agree that ending up in an abusive relationship and suffering emotional abuse was how the cycle repeats itself. He was eleven years older than me but at the age of seventeen I fell in love with him. Due to circumstances beyond my control I moved in with him, I had been inhospital for twelve weeks due to a shattered ankle, as I was no longer able to work my parents could not afford to have me live with them.  The emotional abuse began first, the pyscholical damage destroyed my inner soul. He beat me so bad one night I was took to my mothers house. My nose was flat across my cheek and I stood a bloody mess. She turned her back on me. He laughed, even my own mother didn't want me.  I became so used to the pysical abuse it left me immune to the pain from being beaten. Chained to the living room radiator he would beat me, while raining down emotional abuse, threatening to kill my mother, my sisters. He was sent to prison, I escaped.  I should of been able to spot abusive relationships a mile away, yet I would run straight into the arms of another abuser who I would go on to have two children with. After a few more years of emotional abuse I had taken all I could and my children gave me the courage to leave. We have never looked back.  This post was written by anonymously by a mum in the hope of helping other victims of domestic violence or emotional abuse. Please take the time to offer your support and share your views.  Other Related Posts:  Domestic Violence stole my kids  Domestic Violence & Sexual Abuse Destroyed Me

  It is not uncommon for a victim of domestic violence to have already witnessed an abusive relationship. It is also common for a survivor to become a victim again. A mum shares anonymously her domestic violence story with you: Abusive relationships were normal to me, my father beat my mother throughout my childhood, some [...]

My kids were taken into care thanks to domestic violence

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This post is an anonymous guest post I thought I had meet the man of my dreams, I was just 16years old living in a hostel after being kicked out of home. I fell in love quickly moved in with him and fell pregnant with my little girl. He first hit me when I was [...]

I put my hands around his throat and made him drop the knife

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This Post is an anonymous guest post I was just a teenage when I suffered from domestic violence. It was the sought of thing you read in magazines and assumed it happened to married, weak women, with too many children to do anything about it. The first time it happened to me, to be honest, [...]

The day I found out HE had been hurting my baby

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I honestly don’t know where to start. It’s so hard for me to get this all out there after keeping it quiet for almost 3 years. My soon to be ex husband first hit me a week after he came home from hospital after fighting pneumonia and [...]

He slashed my face with a piece of broken glass

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I have something to share with you , I am not trying to scare anyone but want to make you all aware . This is very long post and I just want you to read it and please be aware at this time of year how not [...]

I got flowers today because it was my funeral

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We had our first argument last night, and he said loads of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn’t mean the things he said, as he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today, it wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day.   Last night he threw me into [...]

A mum stabs her abusive partner with a screwdriver

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Today a brave mum speaks out of being the child stuck in the middle of domestic violence. This is an anonymous guest post.       She met him at work, he was dark haired and hairy and made her stomach flip. She was so excited! She brought him to meet me and my two [...]

My only option to leave meant leaving my child behind

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  I haven’t had a great life a lot of things happened to me when I was young the lose of my father at the age of 8 then my mum getting with my step dad that abused me (not sexually) which lead me to runaway a lot got in to drinking and smoking cannabis. [...]

He even started to beat me in front of his friends and family

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    I am writing my story of domestic violence for the blog, as this is the first step to recovery, and to putting the past behind me where it belongs. I was 15 years old, and I had joined up to an online community chat site for teenagers, and that is where I met [...]

I will kill your mum and cut her up

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  Sitting here now with my 2 children feeling the over powering pride and joy I have for them. Didnt get here without trouble. Lets start from the begining….. Had a fantastic childhood with the most amazing mum in the world who would do anything for me we wasnt rich but I always had what [...]

My dad attacked me & told me he would kill my child

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My dad wasn’t much of a dad at all, to be honest he made my childhood hell. my mum left him when I was four and I think she thought it would end there.  He would regularly beat her up and once tried to strangle her. I have one memory of him throwing my mum [...]

I hate him beacuse hes made me like I am now, a freak in my eyes

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It all began when I was 17, I used to go to the pub quite a lot by me weekends it was a club. Thats where he worked id seen him a few times serving but he had the sort of face which is mate material. I later found out he was 20 years old..anyways [...]

He is now in prison for ABH

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Sat think about memories are a killer even more so when you can’t sleep so I thought I’d get alot off my mind this way, I’ll start when I was 14.

Real Life Story: How domestic violence led to a stabbing !

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Part of my day job is running a rather large support network on Facebook. Offering a safe place for mums and mums to be to come and receive help and support from others. I face new challenges each day, not all topics are baby and child related. The past can sometimes haunt our futures, for [...]