Technically I Belong But Somehow I Still Feel Out Of Place

I stood alone in the playground this morning, my hood pulled tight to stop the wind howling through my hair, not that it would have made any difference to the style, bed head is the new fashion style in my word. The rain was cold and I pulled my hands up into my sleeves. I don’t normally [...]

Reading Your Blog Was Like Seeing Everything I’m Feeling Written Down

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My names Shelley and I’m a 21yr old mother to a beautiful baby girl. Reading your blog was like seeing everything I’m feeling written down. I was beginning to think I had schizophrenia or some social mental disorder. I feel so much better knowing what it is and where to go from here. I was [...]

Is it harder to have Agoraphobia when you have children?

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I belong to several support groups on the internet for my various psychological disorders. Recently, in one of these groups, someone posted a question along the lines of… Is it harder to have Agoraphobia when you have children? I gave a short response, based on the fact that I’ve been Agoraphobic for ten years, and [...]

My Guilty Secret Exposed

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I have a guilty secret. I go to see a therapist about my anxiety. None of my friends know. My family do not know. No one even knows I suffer from it. The me you see is always laughing at school pick-up. You don’t know the panic I fight on my walk into the playground. [...]

Forced Into Abortion; My Parents Called Me Dirty

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My anxiety started after my eldest sister passed away very suddenly. I was only 12 and my family were very close and loving, but after she died my father didn’t want to know me, as I looked like her. He’d ask me for a cuddle when he was drunk and crying then then would push [...]

I Have OCD But Am Fighting It

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Since secondary school I have always hated getting my hands wet and touching certain materials, I would later learn I have OCD. My mum used to think I was just trying to get out of doing household chores but I truly hated it. I thought it was just me, or that I was just strange. [...]

Domestic Violence Picture Drew By My 3 Year Old

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My eldest daughter was going to nursery by now and I missed her so much, I would even stay close to the nursery in case they needed to phone me, although I only lived a ten minute walk away, I had to stay close. We had a very strong bond and I could not bear [...]

Challenging Negative Thoughts

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    I often find myself in situations I do not wish to be in and while we cannot control everything around us, anxiety can be reduced when facing stressful situations by challenging negative thoughts that arise. Self-Talk (talking to yourself) is a great tool for a person who is suffering from anxiety to learn; [...]

Turning Down A TV Opportunity Because Im A Freak

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  I hate myself so much at times and right now I just want to cry, I have received the fantastic opportunity to be on The Wright Stuff on Channel 5  tomorrow, yet it would mean traveling to London, tonight. Its at least 9 hours away and although some without anxiety would also be apprehensive [...]

BeeBee: An Introduction

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Hello. So what can I tell you about myself? Well let me start with the basics. I’m a full-time kiddy wrangler (two boys aged 5 and 6), a part-time sub-editor, and constant social media user (you only have to peek at my Twitter account to see that @beebeecavendish). I have also suffered from depression now [...]

Why Do I Fear Rejection?

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  The fear of rejection is something that plaques my life, its one of my many nasty traits. It does upset me that I feel this way and I would very much like to overcome it as it does ruin the way I think and behave. For example; The school playground; I take great pleasure [...]

Extreme Anxiety; Why My Kids Have To Run On Grass

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  I lowered my head to the floor so I did not have to make eye contact with the nursery teacher when I explained to her for the first time that my children had never ran or played on concrete before. My heart had dropped to the pit of my stomach when they started their first [...]

5 Ways to Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone and Find Love

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  Your comfort zone is a great place to be, when you are not looking to find love, but if you are looking for that perfect someone in your life then you need to step out of your comfort zone.   Your comfort zone keeps you attached to your everyday routine. It is what you [...]

Social Anxiety Disorder Exposed

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  Here we look at how panic attacks and anxiety attacks can cause depression, physical symptoms,social phobia and intense fear. If you have ever suffered a panic attack you will relate to anxiety attacks as they are much the same. Anxiety attacks and depression seem to go hand in hand. Anxiety attacks are very common [...]

How to stop your child being clingy

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All children go through stages of being clingy and have separation anxiety, hanging onto your leg or screaming the minute you go out of site. This becomes even worse when you need to leave them behind but there are ways we can make this easier for both them and for us.

Don’t Panic: Guest Post On Panic Attacks

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Today the lovely Jessica Amey from (Mum2babyinsomniac) guest post for us.

A mum fears something will happen to her baby

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I’m sat here on my laptop like every other night and as normal have already gone in to check at least 10 times that little man is okay.. normally by gently placing my hand on his back to feel if he’s breathing.! A healthy, thriving 10month old, yet I find myself doing this every night [...]

A touching message

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A mum shares a very touching thank you message