Anonymous Blogging Has Its Uses

Anonymous Blogging Is Becoming Popular

  To blog anonymously or anonymous blogging is a term used when you post on a blog but keep your identity hidden. There are many reasons why someone would choose to blog anonymously. The Real Supermum Blog is host to many anonymous blogging posts. I have found the main reason that posters choose to keep their identity hidden is many of the posts reveal [...]

Looking After Your Mental Health

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  Being healthy does not only refer to physical well-being but it also refers to emotional and psychological health. A healthy mind is equal to a healthy life. To get the best out of life, you have to be free from depression or any other condition that can affect your psychological well-being. People who commit [...]

Domestic Violence Stole My Kids

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Domestic violence and emotional abuse often come together. An abuser will emotionally abuse his victim as a form of control. The emotional abuse can sometimes be harder to recognise as the victim slowly looses confidence and self belief.   A mum shares her domestic violence story with you:   I was sixteen years old when [...]

Mental Health & A Break Up Lead To Suicide

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  Mental health problems can occur at at any given time, mixed with a complicated relationship it can prove fatal. A mental health issue left untreated can manifest itself hidden deep beneath the surface, just waiting for an opportunity to attack. A mum shares anonymously her story on mental health and a break up: Loosing [...]

Domestic Violence Survivor Speaks Out : Her kids Saved Her

It is not uncommon for a victim of domestic violence to have already witnessed an abusive relationship. It is also common for a survivor to become a victim again.  A mum shares anonymously her domestic violence story with you:  Abusive relationships were normal to me, my father beat my mother throughout my childhood, some would agree that ending up in an abusive relationship and suffering emotional abuse was how the cycle repeats itself. He was eleven years older than me but at the age of seventeen I fell in love with him. Due to circumstances beyond my control I moved in with him, I had been inhospital for twelve weeks due to a shattered ankle, as I was no longer able to work my parents could not afford to have me live with them.  The emotional abuse began first, the pyscholical damage destroyed my inner soul. He beat me so bad one night I was took to my mothers house. My nose was flat across my cheek and I stood a bloody mess. She turned her back on me. He laughed, even my own mother didn't want me.  I became so used to the pysical abuse it left me immune to the pain from being beaten. Chained to the living room radiator he would beat me, while raining down emotional abuse, threatening to kill my mother, my sisters. He was sent to prison, I escaped.  I should of been able to spot abusive relationships a mile away, yet I would run straight into the arms of another abuser who I would go on to have two children with. After a few more years of emotional abuse I had taken all I could and my children gave me the courage to leave. We have never looked back.  This post was written by anonymously by a mum in the hope of helping other victims of domestic violence or emotional abuse. Please take the time to offer your support and share your views.  Other Related Posts:  Domestic Violence stole my kids  Domestic Violence & Sexual Abuse Destroyed Me

  It is not uncommon for a victim of domestic violence to have already witnessed an abusive relationship. It is also common for a survivor to become a victim again. A mum shares anonymously her domestic violence story with you: Abusive relationships were normal to me, my father beat my mother throughout my childhood, some [...]

My kids were taken into care thanks to domestic violence

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This post is an anonymous guest post I thought I had meet the man of my dreams, I was just 16years old living in a hostel after being kicked out of home. I fell in love quickly moved in with him and fell pregnant with my little girl. He first hit me when I was [...]

I put my hands around his throat and made him drop the knife

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This Post is an anonymous guest post I was just a teenage when I suffered from domestic violence. It was the sought of thing you read in magazines and assumed it happened to married, weak women, with too many children to do anything about it. The first time it happened to me, to be honest, [...]

The day I found out HE had been hurting my baby

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I honestly don’t know where to start. It’s so hard for me to get this all out there after keeping it quiet for almost 3 years. My soon to be ex husband first hit me a week after he came home from hospital after fighting pneumonia and [...]

The day I felt like an outcast

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This post is an anonymous GUEST POST I was in the last year of Uni at the time trying to keep my head above water but slowly sinking. I had lost all my friends and lived in a little bubble with the man I was engaged to at the time. This man had stripped me [...]

Rest In Peace: Dedicated to our very brave mum & her Angel

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  I love what I do, yet despise it at times. Along with the laughter and fun comes the tears and the heartaches.   While I may never get to meet so many of my mums, they all hold a special place in my heart. I come to know them and their babies and children [...]

He slashed my face with a piece of broken glass

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I have something to share with you , I am not trying to scare anyone but want to make you all aware . This is very long post and I just want you to read it and please be aware at this time of year how not [...]

My dads last words to me were F@@k Off as he died

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This post is an anonymous guest post   I miss him everyday. Its been just over 6 years since he passed away and there is never a day where I don’t think about whether he would be happy for me. Let me explain why I was so close to him. I can remember my Mom [...]

I got flowers today because it was my funeral

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We had our first argument last night, and he said loads of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn’t mean the things he said, as he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today, it wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day.   Last night he threw me into [...]

A mum stabs her abusive partner with a screwdriver

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Today a brave mum speaks out of being the child stuck in the middle of domestic violence. This is an anonymous guest post.       She met him at work, he was dark haired and hairy and made her stomach flip. She was so excited! She brought him to meet me and my two [...]

My only option to leave meant leaving my child behind

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  I haven’t had a great life a lot of things happened to me when I was young the lose of my father at the age of 8 then my mum getting with my step dad that abused me (not sexually) which lead me to runaway a lot got in to drinking and smoking cannabis. [...]

He even started to beat me in front of his friends and family

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    I am writing my story of domestic violence for the blog, as this is the first step to recovery, and to putting the past behind me where it belongs. I was 15 years old, and I had joined up to an online community chat site for teenagers, and that is where I met [...]

I will kill your mum and cut her up

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  Sitting here now with my 2 children feeling the over powering pride and joy I have for them. Didnt get here without trouble. Lets start from the begining….. Had a fantastic childhood with the most amazing mum in the world who would do anything for me we wasnt rich but I always had what [...]

A mum in emotional turmoil: Can you help?

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   I’m in a really dark place at the moment and don’t know what to do. 9-10 years ago I left my ex. He used to rape and beat me, whilst I was pregnant and after. The day I went into labour he pushed me down a flight of stairs, i ended up going into [...]