LETTER TO A MOLESTER

“Just this once,” you used to say, but that was just a lie. You stole my innocence and made your little brother cry. Not just when you touched my skin, throughout my whole existence. Nightmares! Flashbacks! Memories, pursued with great persistence. You would bring me to the basement, in the quiet of the night. I [...]

I Was Date Raped; Moving Forward

It is difficult to know how to support a women after rape. When you are with a woman who has been raped, give them time.  I was date raped and it has taken me a log time to come to terms with it. Do not pressure them because that will only push them away. I [...]

My Stepdad Asked Me To Touch Him

I was 10 years old and never had much of a good start to life. My dad always beat my mum black and blue. I’d watched him slash her with a knife and once he tried to hang her with a rope, she was cut down by ambulance men who attended. He even held a [...]

How Do I Tell My Daughter I Was Raped?

I’ve always lived in fear of something, or someone. Its just always been there., an unavoidable, indescribable fear. After “HIM” I feared nobody. There was nobody on this earth that could hurt me like he had. The pain he caused me that night was immense. Overwhelming. It seeped out every pore I have, every second of every day. [...]

Did He Rape Me Because I’m Beautiful?

I get my fair share of compliments about my looks. Some are reasonable, believable. Others seem a bit exaggerated. Despite being the recipient of these compliments since I was a young teenager, I in no way believe that every man that sees me wants me. But I do wonder if that one person who approached [...]

Anally Raped By My Boyfriend While I Slept – Please Help Me

I am in bits right now, I have just found out that my ex raped me several times. I left him a few weeks ago and it was not a very nice separation ,but it had been a long time coming as he was becoming abusive physically and emotionally. I would often wake up after a night [...]

Mums Boyfriend And His Mates Abused Me

What went wrong? When did you stop caring? Was it because I told you he touched me? Was I bad mummy? Alone and scared I hide away in my room a frightened little girl unsure of whats going on. He comes up to find me hiding under my quilt, crying out ‘No please don’t touch [...]

My Boyfriend Was In Prison; He Left Bite Marks On A 6 Month Old Baby

I was 19 when I found out I was pregnant with my 1st in fact it was on my birthday that I found out. I hadn’t long moved away. Away from my real mum and my childhood town to live near my dad. I was living on my own when I met Mark my babies [...]

Grandad Raped Me But My Mum Does Not Believe Me

I don’t know how to word this or how to come out with it but I’m going to try my best. Here goes; I was only 5 years old when my grandad started getting close to me. He would make sure he sat next to me all the time. Almost everywhere he went, he would [...]

He Killed Our Baby; Beaten For Over An Hour & Raped

  January 2008 – I was 18 years old, I started a new college and made new friends. I might this “amazing” man through one of this girls at college, left all my old friends behind and moved up to be closer to him. Things started off great, he was lovely sweet and kind, he [...]

I Don’t Want Him Near My Baby; He Raped Me When I Was 6

I was 2 years old when my real father left. My mother was a very unfaithful wife, she slept around, she met my step father Doug right after. I was 6 years old when I first got raped by him I couldn’t bathe alone without him following me.  He said nasty stuff to me and did nasty [...]

Rape & Forced Into Oral Sex – Is It Too Late To Report Him?

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I am  in bits. I cant get on with my life and this is driving me insane. My ex raped me and when he didn’t rape me, he would force me to give him oral sex and when I would not do this,  he would push my head so far I would gag, but he didn’t care. [...]

Top Tips To Prevent Rape

  NOTICE* This blog post in no ways condones nor suggests that women should even have to prevent rape. Rape destroys lives. These tips have been suggested and added in the hope of raising awareness of rape.   Top Tips To Prevent Rape – Written By An Anonymous Blog Reader & Victim Of Rape Hairstyle; For [...]

Anal Rape Story – Thank You For Taking The Shame Away

When I first wrote my blog post – Anal Rape; My Scars Were Infected Where He Cut Me With Glass -  it was a decision I made after thinking about it for a long time. I had never told anyone what happened, and it was sort of stuck in my mind. Sometimes even now it replays [...]

My Foster Dad Abused Me After My Mum Didn’t Want Me

I didn’t realise the impact that my childhood was going to have on me. Being abandoned by my mother three times throughout my childhood. I was neglected by my father who was an alcoholic and a gambling man. I still love him very much as he didn’t abandon me when my mother did,even though my father was to make [...]

Was I Raped By My Ex Last Night? I Don’t Know What To Do

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I’m so tired and worn out, I just need to off load.  I wanna scream. I’ve had my ex here staying for a bit for our little girls birthday. We have been talking and getting along until last night. I went to bed and was just nodding off to sleep when I heard him creeping [...]

Rape Victim Speaks Out; She Did What?

She did what? Those were the first words that came out of the police officer’s mouth, he stared at me and from the look in his eyes, and he had already tried, judged and sentenced me to death. Am sorry, my name is Lola (Not her real name), I am 26 years old, single and [...]

A Letter To My Abuser; I bet you thought you had won didn’t you?

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I bet you thought you had won didn’t you? I hadn’t said anything for years you probably thought you had gotten away with what you did to me. Well you was wrong I had spoken out just no one listened to me, I was 14 and you and mum had started to message each other [...]