Most of you will have in-laws or ex in-laws. Did you try to equally split your time fairly between your parents and your partner parents?
When I had my first baby he was the first born on both sides of the family and everything I did was as fair as can be.
Now nearly two years on there are four grandkids for my other half’s side and 4 days after my first born sons second birthday there shall be five.
I have two of those 4 kids; would anybody like to know the last time my kids got too see there grandparents? It was New Years Eve?
I am livid
Im sick of the not making an effort, Im proper sobbing my heart out writing this
My Dad is trying his hardest too get us to Canada, so for now he watches his grandchildren grow up through a computer screen and it kills me.
They can’t even manage the drive to my house which is less then a 5 MINUTE DRIVE
His Parents Leave My Kids Out!
Its makes me so upset as they clearly favour the other two. And my heartbreaks for my dad, brothers and sister who get a skype now and then
I honestly don’t know what to do anymore
I have had enough of it bringing me down and hurting me
Have you any advice for this mum?
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i had the same situation, but in the sense that my partners mum left my little boy out (not his boy) and paid more attention to my daughter.. maybe try and have words with them
I had similair my brother left my children out xx
Why do grandparents feel the need to do this I found my grandparents favoured my cousin’s over me makes me so angry its not fair at all xx
Really annoys me that people do this!! My cousin hasn’t long had a baby and my kids are already getting left out xx
Aww hun (hugs) I really do hate when grandparents do this, it really isit fair, all children should be treated the same no one favoured more then the other
. Have u thought about talkin to them about it? Xx
Hugs huni,ive not been in this situation as of yet,i have two boys only one is my partners and they both get treated the same by both sides of the family,cant imagine either of them being left out it would break my heart:-( x
Big hugs i can relate to this!! Oh’s mum doesn’t accept my kids but accept’s his oldest
so unfair xx
My boys grandmother (fathers side) has seen them five times in their lives. The last time being 366 days ago. Then before that she left 485 days between seeing them. She gets them nothing. But his sisters kids she can’t do enough. Getting on a bus every morning to take them to school and pick them up. Having them every single weekend. It makes me sick.
At the end of the day it’s them that miss out. Just let it go over your head. Don’t arrange for the kids to see them. Don’t let it get to you because it will never change their attitude. It’s their loss at the end of the day. X
Sod them hun, if they can’t make an effort it is their loss. As long as you’ve tried that’s all that matters. BIG HUGS
Hate wen grandparent do that,they sud treat all grandkids the same x
:@ my ohs parents are ok its ther bloody great aunties with mine and my lgs aunties they boil my blood!!
Aww hun its their loss big hugs (soz dint really knw wat to say)
Hugs hun my OHs mum doesn’t even know my kids names xx
big hugs hun, i can relate to this . its so unfair xx
I did to start with as I wanted to keep everyone happy but now its much more relaxed and people know I get to see them when I can x
Things like this really annoy me everyone should be treat the same x