January 2008 – I was 18 years old, I started a new college and made new friends. I might this “amazing” man through one of this girls at college, left all my old friends behind and moved up to be closer to him. Things started off great, he was lovely sweet and kind, he 
had me hook line and sinker for day one. Things slowly began to fade out fast though.
He had me giving him blow jobs whilst he played on his play station, when I refused he would beat me whilst his mother was upstairs. I took him to meet my parents though all of this was going on, never once did he tell me he loved me.
I have no idea why I stayed something made me, he took ladies into our room and had me listen to him having sex with them or watch he made me have sex with his friends, even make their breakfast and clean the bedding.
May 2008 – I received a call to tell me my grandfather had passed away…I left him for two weeks whilst I went to see my family in another country, whilst I was away I had a car crash where I found I was pregnant 18 weeks I was so scared. I didn’t tell my family as I didn’t know how they would respond to me being pregnant
Id cut them out of my life visiting them twice in since I’d been with him…I returned “home”
It was the coldest welcome I received, his sister who I am still close to pulled me one side and told me what he’d been up too, what he had been bragging about, what he did too other girls and what he did too me.
Once again I pushed it too one side and carried on with my duties. not knowing when to drop the bomb shell. After a full day of being stuck in the house with him on his Playstation, then a full night of him bringing a another girl home. Id had enough.
He came down that morning put his Playstation on so I asked him to switch it off, he said no so I switched it off at the wall knowing this would make him anger as I had done it before.
He stood up and pounced towards me, he started punching me in the face
I tried to scream, nothing would come out
His brother and mother walked in and walked past like nothing was going on
I managed to get away that’s when I shouted I”’m pregnant please stop it please stop beating me. I had already had a car crash, I’m meant to be taking it easy”.
He looked shocked and told me it was impossible as he always flug up after having sex with me too make sure it fell out, for a week things were great. I went for scans as I was getting the courage to tell my parents.
Then one day he went out with his brother and didn’t come home till two in the morning. I heard him crashing through the doors and two girls in fits of giggles, I had reverted back to the old me, I moved into the bathroom quickly and let him take them upstairs as I slept on the couch.
Several hours later I heard those girls sneak out and I went and woke him. I got physically for once, I threw shoes and all sorts at him, he stood up and he was purple with rage.
He pushed, punched and smacked me out of the room and then finally he kicked me down the stairs.
The beating carried on for an hour and half till his sister came home and found him on top of me raping me from behind. She pulled him off me whilst her partner picked me up and dragged me out the street. It was like something from horror scene.
I woke up in hospital, he killed my baby
Still do this day I can’t forget the emptiness feeling that I had, this was the end of July 2008. I moved back to my home town and stayed away for a whole month, then I crept back, I wanted to feel the void. On a night out I was with my best friend, my ex boyfriend turned up feeling lonely, I went back to him for a few days I texted my friend letting her know where I was and Id be home by the Tuesday, she fell out with me.
I don’t know why because it was like I had never left the next day he beat me raped me and had other men attack. Monday night I received a call from my best friend “Lisa”. I took the phone upstairs and started to say “I’m sorry I don’t know why I came back can you come and get me”, on end of the phone it was her boyfriend telling me she had passed away.
I screamed so loud and told him I would be half an hour, I packed my stuff and left
To this day I haven’t seen that “man” again
It took me too lose so many people too realise he was wrong, vile and horrid.
I have a new partner and two children now. I still suffer with nightmares, I can’t be alone in the dark, and I can’t be around anyone who smells like cider. We drove through his town and past his old house not long after my eldest was born with my in-laws. I had a panic attack.
Please anyone who is in abusive relationship mental or physical leave now…before if cost you your loved ones or yourself
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You poor love, what an evil thing he is. i cant even call him an animal that is too nice for him xx
im so glad you got away, men can be so evil and cruel its unreal x
That’s so horrible what a disgraceful man be strong ur in a better place now xx
Omg hun I can not believe what he did to u massive hugs
glad your away from him now xxx
Oh hunni I’m so sorry! Big hugs to you I’m so glad you got away xx
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Oh god hunni … Massive hugs x x
Aww hunni!! Big hugs!!! He doesn’t even deserve to be called a man!!! Xx
What a vial excuse of a man he is!!
So glad u got away and have moved on with your life in a pod dative way.
Sending big hugs xxx
Big hugs hunni xxx
dont know what to say. massive hugs to you
Hello there.
I have been wondering how to say this, but I think I best just pop out with it. Sounds like my ex, I don’t just mean I’ve suffered violence at home, I mean I think its a possibility it’s the same “man” and if it is I’m so very sorry. Xxxxxx
The things that most hit home with me were beating whilst early stage pregnancy, I’ve lost a few pregnancies. I lost count, I repressed some of past. Also that the mum and sister were aware. Heard meand saw me in danger a few times.
I wish I’d run away the very first time he was nasty. Like you say, anyone in this situation needs to get out.
I also now have a decent human being, not violent scum for a partner and two lovely boys. I was frightened after the attacks and history of non accidental loses that I wouldn’t ever be able, but I did.
So if you’re reading this, and you are being abused RUN, YOU ARE BETTER, and you can have a decent life after escaping.
i dont no what to say..i actually cried reading this massive (((higs))) x x x
Hes not even a man! Hes a coward! Hugs huni so glad your in a better place,noone deserves to be treated like that xx
So glad you got away, big big hugs xxx
First of all let me say I think your very strong for sharing your story, I just wanna give u a big hug!! His a nasty piece of sh*t!I’m happy u left him and have a nice family now who treat u with respect! And I hope the nightmares will fade away soon! Big hugs!!!!!! Xx
What a vile ‘man’ he was
BIG HUGS hun. Glad you gotout eventually. And so so sorry you had to go through all of that and that you lost your baby xx
Omg what a horrid horrid man so glad you hsv now found your happiness xxx big hugs xxx
omg hunni, i really dont know wat to say, i’m so glad ur happier now n i hope in time the nightmares will fade, big hugs 4 telling such a horrid part of ur life , stay strong xx
i’M LOST FOR WORDS.. WHAT AN EVIL, EVIL MONSTER!!! gLAD YOU’VE FOUND THE STRENGTH TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE XX
Ooops sorry, I’m not shouting my stupid caps key is dodgy!! x
omg hun so glad u got away some people can be nasty pieces of work thank u for sharing ur story hugs xxxx
So glad u gr away the nasty vile piece of human! X
Omg,
speechless, I’m so sorry u went thru this…. I hope ur doing ok now, huge hugs xxx