Have you ever wanted something so badly that its all you think about. Day and night. You go to sleep thinking about it. You wake up thinking about it. But it’s too emotional you can’t talk about it. That’s what it was like when we decided to try for a baby. I already had a 5 year old (not my partners). So I did feel lucky. She was my life but I still felt empty.
After trying for a year. A year of tears and feeling inadequate every single month I went to the GP. I had blood test after blood test. Which showed nothing. I Was referred to fertility clinic who did some tests of their own. They discovered I only had one ovary, how the hell had I got to 30 and not known. And that one was covered in cysts. Which I had an operation to laser and burst them.
Meanwhile hubby had sperm tests. To discover in their words they were extremely slow swimmers. In a way that was probably easier as neither one of us were to blame. We both were. But it was so hard to live with. It seemed like there was no light at the end of the tunnel. It would never happen.
How many times we decided we just couldn’t go through any more. We were stressed. Every conversation centred on babies. All our friends were having babies. And another friend was using abortion almost like contraception. This isn’t a for or against abortions lecture or even a she shouldn’t have done it. But it was heartbreaking I was trying so hard and some had sex once and were pregnant and didn’t even want to be. Life felt so unfair.
The clinic was in a house not the hospital which was nice. I was given Clomid which didn’t make me ovulate enough so I had to inject myself every day. How do you stick needles into yourself until your whole body is bruised and sore? Yet every day you do
I had to go for a scan every month when I was ovulating to check I hadn’t produced too many eggs, once was even 10pm on a Sunday night.
Hubby had to fill little pots to be injected into me. Not the most pleasant but it had to be done. And he did. Time after time.
Eventually we were told this had to be our final attempt. We were gutted. It just wasn’t ever going to happen. Everything had been for nothing. So 14 days later I took the test. Positive. I screamed I cried. I didn’t believe it. I went for another test.And another and another. I rang the clinic had bloods taken. Definitely pregnant. Nothing can come close to seeing those words. We had finally done it.
We told our parents but were too scared to tell anybody until after 5 weeks we had a scan and it was there. It was real. We were having a baby.
The staff at the clinic were totally amazing. And 7 yearrs later I still go to see them with my not so little 6 yr old baby. Who must have fixed whatever didn’t work cos can you imagine our surprise a year later to find out I was pregnant again. I now have the perfect family. My 2 girls and my little monkey (sorry little boy)
If you are struggling to conceive just don’t give up. We nearly did so many times. And we will be forever grateful that we persevered.
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Such a sad and sweet story all in one, congrats on your lovely family xxx
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congratulations to you both hunni x x
So glad you got the family you wanted in the end x
Wow that brought tears to my eyes reading it x
Wow what a story! You must be one strong lady and your hubby must be strong to to go through all that and come through the other side. Congrats on such a lovely little family, bet they make you so proud especially knowing how hard you had to ‘work’ to get to this point
Just shows how anything can happen hun xx
congratulations to u
so glad it worked for you x
that’s amazing. just goes to show doctors don’t know it all
There is such a thing as happy endings xx
Happy endings are always lovely to see.xx
This is such an emotional story! So glad you got your happy ending xx
Awwwww:-( so glad everything worked out for you!doctors dont know everything!! xxx
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Glad you have your little family hun xxx
congratulations hunni!! I am having huge problems with my fertility. have so many problems, and trying so hard to get a little munchkin. all hope is not lost!! xxxx
and Thankyou xxx
So glad u got the family u wantedx
So pleased you got your happy ending xxxx
thanks for this story, ive recently had one of my tubes took out, know its not quite the same thing but its given my hope that i may still be able to get pregnant eventually xx
Such a great story. Inspiration to everyone and now have the perfect family x
Think this story has brought a tear to almost everyones eyes and we are all so happy for you hun that you have such a lovely family now
Congratulations to you both xx
So happy you got your happy ever after. Lovely post and lovely that the ending was so happy. So happy for you x x
That is amazing! X
Congrats!! What a story xxx
Aww hunni so happy for you well done for getting thru it and never giving up congratulations x
glad u got the family u been waiting for hun xx