I was a pregnant virgin and I am now a doting mummy to a 9 week old baby and this shocks many people when I tell them. Yes you can get pregnant without having sex. I’ve had 6 boyfriends and have done some sexual stuff with them but I have never actually had full on penetrated sex. My friend thought she was pregnant so asked me to do a test with her as a way of support and my test came out positive.
I thought because I wasn’t having sex I couldn’t get pregnant so I had not bothered with using any form of contraception and the only way I can explain what happened was his sperm must have got onto my private area and got me pregnant.
I was petrified of labour thinking it would hurt so much more as I hadn’t been stretched’ down there, but I ended up having internal exams (which were quite uncomfortable but didn’t hurt) and a fast labour (4 and a half hours).
I haven’t told anyone (obviously the father of mybaby knows) because I was really embarrassed that I am a 20 year old virgin. I wanted to write this purely because when I searched ‘pregnant virgins’ online I found nothing that said it was possible to happen and felt really alone about it.
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Well, yes, sperm cells are live organisms that can swim inside, even when there is no penetration.
How is the relationship with the father? Is he father-material?
I think it’s good to think about how you’re going to go about having the baby.
There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. There’s nothing with being a virgin period. If you haven’t found the one that you care enough about to get intimate with, that’s not embarassing. I think it’s respectable.
Good luck and wish you all the strength during your pregnancy. I wish you and your baby all the health and joy in the world.
Regards,
Daan van den Bergh
ive personally never heard of this but congratulations
Yup, knew it was possible but never knew of anyone who it had happened to.
Bet a lot of people struggle to believe it?!
Good luck with baby x
oh wow ive never heard of this either. thats amazing congratulations =D
Wow… Just… Wow I’m shocked x
Wow :/ never heard of that before Congratulations x
i havent heard od this either xx
Wow what a shock that must have been hun don’t be embarrased about being a 20 year old virgin hun ! Congrats on lo xx
Wow never actually heard of it happening b4 but always been warned about it… Congratulations on becoming a new mum
Glad you only had a short labour xx
I agree with the first post, its very respectful to still be a virgin at 20
I was always warn it that it could happened 
Congratulations on becoming a yummy mummy xxxx
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Wow! Learnt something new! Never thought it was possible…Congratulations and Thank you for sharing your story x
this can happen, happened to my cousin, she got pregnant, told him, she was pregnant. he obvs didn’t believe that the kid was his as they didn’t have sex, went to court got a dna then presto. haha, he now loves his daughter with all his heart. amazing how u can get a virgin pregnant isn’t it.
Awwwww congratulations! It must of been a real shock! Im glad that you story is now on here for others to see. x
Wow thats really amazing. I think you still being a virgin is summat you should be very happy with and defo not embarrassed about. Well done!
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wow congratulationshun it’s a bonus having a lo AND still being a virgin nothing to be embarrassed about at all xx
wow congrats xxx
Wow, I’ve never heard of this either, but congratulations to you
This is an incredible story – you must have rightly been scared. I hope you and your baby (and the father) are doing well x
WOW I’ve never heard this either but congratulations
Wow!!!! Congratulations xx
Wow, ive always heard that it could happen via sex education etc, but i have never heard of it ACTUALLY happening, congrats and all the best to you and your new family xx
First off congratulations!! And wow. I am in shock. I have heard that it is possible to et pregnant if i man had sperm on his fingers then inserted them into private area but wasn’t sure how much the likely hood of this happening was. But i am in shock and amazed. Learn something new everyday xx
wow congrats
Wow, never heard of this before but i guess it is possible
congrats 
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WOW congratulations
xx
That must of been a huge shock congrats x
Wow well I for one dosn’t no you could get pregnant without having sex but I do now but it must of been a huge shock Hun congratulations xxx
omg amazing
Ive heard of this before but wanted to say a massive well done for sharing this. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed for being a 20 year old virgin at all!! big hugs xxx
wow id never heard of this but congratulations sweet xx
Shouldn’t laugh but I did :-/ You hear things like this and always laugh them off, or at least I do. Now this. Bless. Congratulations on your baby. Don’t be embarrassed of the truth hun, if nobody speaks about about anything we’d be very much in the dark about a lot of things still x
Omg Ts TRUE you learn somethin new everyday..
congratulations hunnie this was deffo a immaculate conception xxx
Oh wow I didn’t know about this! Congrats! xx
Gosh in shock! Didn’t no this could happen
… Congratulation anyways 
there’s nothing wrong with being 20 and a virging hunni 
(hugs) xx
wow this must of been a big shock, congratulations hun xxx
oh wow, ive never heard of this but congrats hunny.
and nothing wrong with being a virgin.. sometimes i wished i had waited and i was 18 when i lost my virginity! xx
Great post hopefully this will help other people in the same suitation to know their not alone x
Lost for words on this amazing story. Wow x
you should never be ashamed but be proud
people will respect you a lot for that! congratulations! 