Hello Emma -Confidentially… back in the 1950′s my father was posted to Singapore; he was in the RAF medical corps. My 2 brothers and I were sexually abused during our time there and it has haunted me ever since. My Mum was about to give birth to our youngest brother and we were taken to the hospital when my dad went to work in order to give her a break. While my dad was working we were left alone and baby-sat by various Airmen who abused us.
My brothers were raped by them and a music teacher they had at the time – I cant fully remember what the men did to me ( I’m sure I’ve blocked it out) but I was blindfolded and I think photos were taken of me posing.
I was too terrified to react or tell anyone and became a very frightened and anxious little girl, developing a stammer. Since adulthood and not until we were well into our 30′s we’ve spoken about it together - that’s how I found out about my brothers experiences.
One of my brothers later went on to sexually abuse my younger sister who at the time ( in Singapore)stayed home with our mum and wasn’t subjected to what us 3 went through. I’d like to tell someone, to report this but to who?
We questioned my dad about this many, many years later but he was gob-smacked and said he had no clue what was going on. I dont know whether I believed him.
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Oh god how sad! I dont know what to say but hugs to you xx
Sometimes speaking helps and other times does t do much
big hugs x
aww what an awful thing to go thru . hugs x
O god what an awful thing for you all to go through. Hugs hun xx
thats an awful thing you had to go through and i hope one day you get the answers you deserve xx
I was blindfolded and I think photos were taken of me posing http://t.co/OK5XxqxM
What a horrible ordeal from someone who should be in a position of trust. Big hugs x
that must be an awful ordeal to go through big ((hugs)) hun xx
hugs hun im speachless
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What an awful thing to go through
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It must be very hard for you to know what your brother did. I wouldn’t know who to report it to, the police? Have you told your mum? Would you want to do that before reporting? Or spoken ton your sister? Im glad that you seem to be doing well yourself and i hope whatever you decide to do, it works out for you xx
oh hun what a awful thing to go though i dont no how you would go about reporting it but i hope you find away hun please keep us updated glad your doing great for yourself chin up hugs xx
what an awful thing to go threw, i hope u r ok.
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I am lost for words..all i can say is how horrendous it must of been for you. Thank you for sharing x