Why do women fake orgasms? A new survey suggests that half of all women have faked an orgasm at one time or another. To be honest I think many were lying when they took part in the research.
We often discuss sex on the mums group and I know many women have faked an orgasm and the main reasons seems to be they are tired and just want it over and done with or their partner just isn’t getting them that far. It can disappointing to have sex and not reach orgasm and many women fake it to so their partners don’t feel a failure in the sack. .
I asked the mums on my Facebook group – Why Do Women Fake Orgasms;
- So that their sexual partner doesn’t become self-conscious
- For the sake of the man’s ego
- In my case to get him off my back as he could never do it for me
- To get it over and done with if you can’t be bothered
- So you don’t hurt the other persons feelings, I have never faked an orgasm though, I’ve just been honest and told him when he’s not doing things right
- When it’s oral – to get it over with so I can get some real action. When having full on sex – so he thinks he’s pushing the right buttons and knows it’s okay for him to cum as he doesn’t want to stop till he’s pleased me
It can be difficult to sit your man down and say “You can’t make me orgasm” It’s a blow to their confidence and you may just put them off sex altogether.
It is important that your sex life is an area that you can both talk openly about and there’s nothing wrong with helping him and showing him the best ways to make you orgasm.
Before you can teach your partner, make sure you have a play yourself so you know where and how to make yourself orgasm.
We have all faked it at times I’m sure but if you’re faking it every time maybe it’s time to start changing a few things.
Sex is meant to be enjoyable and fun, so why not look at a few sex toys to spice things up, variety is the spice of life or so they say.
Plenty of foreplay is recommended to increase your chances of having an orgasm and to take time and not to rush.
Have you ever faked it?
About The Real Supermum
Ive never faked it
never needed to with my oh 
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I told my OH that I used to exaggerate lol
Now he knows it’s pretty much impossible for my to orgasm from vaginal stimulation.
I didn’t like the idea of telling him but it wasn’t as bad as pretending x
Me and oh were with each other for 2.5 yrs before he learnt to make me orgasm. Before that i didnt even bother to fake it, he would ask had ‘it’ happened and i would just be honest and say no lol. xx
I’ve never faked it. I don’t see the point in faking, if
something doesn’t do it for you it just doesn’t do it. I’m sure there are other things people like their partner to do to them.
It just so happens my partner does it great lol
I used to make out he could get me to come through intercourse. But he couldn’t. You have to proper pound that g spot and the poor love is 17 stone. So hes had enough after about theee thrusts bless. But he’s really good at the old *whistles* stim so we just stick to that. So now we just do it in that order. *whistles* until I come. Then me on top until he does. Simples x
I’ve faked but just to get it over with so I can go to bed lol
never had to fake it with hubby , he’d know anyway as there r tell tale signs when ur orgasum so even if i said i had he’d know , i used to with the ex though to boost his ego but not 4 it to b over quicker as it didn’t matter as me orgasuming never made him finish anyway lol xx
I don’t think I have faked it x
I’m sad to say that I fake it
( my sex life is great but I just can’t seem to orgasm 
think most of us have faked it at some point
i think most woman have faked it at some point and i think they do it to make there men happy xx
some woman fake it or have faked it just so they dont hurt there mens feelings
i think at some point most woman have faked whether they are honest and tell their OH is another story lol
i think most of us have faked it, i have once or twice simply cos i wanted to go bed lol x
alot of women fake it just makes the oh happy xx
i think most people fake to be honest lol..i have! x
every woman must of faked it at least once in there lives lol xx
ithink we fake it 2make them feel better
to get it over with lol
Usually because I’m 2 tired to even care haha xx
i think some fake to get it over with quickly , and to make the ego of the man feel good xx
Iv never faked it with my oh but have with ex’s as its not nice to hurt there feelings if they ant hiting the right spot xx