I am really peed off with my partner, but I don’t know if it’s just me or if it’s something to be peed off about.
About a month ago my partner run up a phone bill, spent 300 minutes on a bloke from work in the space of 2 weeks and over 250 texts in the space of a week.
I happened to pick up a message which was sent by the work mate, which was basically I love you bro, so glad I met you, I couldn’t be without you.
I thought OK something is not right here and looked at more messages and pretty much all the texts were like this. He would ring 17 times in the space of 20 minutes. Texting him saying ring me it’s urgent, then it would turn out to be nothing. All this time he covered it by keeping his phone on silent.
I spoke to my partner about it and he said they are just really close mates (I don’t suspect gayness or anything) and that he is just glad he has found someone who he can talk too.
I told him I find it creepy how he texts constantly, tricks him into thinking something is wrong so he rings him, at work his work mate follows him about – even on days off. I find it really creepy and weird. And especially how many texts were sent and phone calls made, it’s just extortionate.
He spent the day with him the other day to hang out, I said I personally wouldn’t do it as it’s like giving him a fishing line and he’ll take it, literally on his next lot of days of he is ringing constantly and messaging for him to go out again ( like I said what would happen)
My phone buggered up so I went on his to find something and came across more messages – I hope you’re ok, I miss you, love you, you’re the best person I’ve met.
I am fuming, have I a right to be so angry?
He has hidden it all again and I just find it so creepy that a bloke is texting another bloke that way.
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It is a little obsessive but at least if it’s another bloke you know your partner won’t run off with him, haha! Can your partner not ask him to calm it down a little if it’s causing an issue between you?
I’d ask ur oh just to have a quiet word with him explaining how its causing you upset , and maybe suggest to ur oh to have a couple of hours when he’s home with his phone off to spend with.you ? Xx
Think I would be the same as u, tell ur OH how it’s effecting u and he needs to calm down x
Bit excessive isnt it. i wouldnt be happy if it was my oh, maybe just tell him you like that fact he has a close friend, but its getting too much? xx
No you have a right to be angry, thats just really creepily obsessive, I know you don’t suspect your OH is gay but what about this other bloke? Something doesn’t sit right with me! Are you sure it’s a man? xx
Thats just strange
Yup, I’d be angry too. It’s OTT really. Your other half night not be gay, but his friend certainly seems that he might be. I’d have told the work friend my thoughts by now, although i do not recommend that.
You need to explain to your other half how it sounds to you, and ask him to put a stop to all the weird texts … yeh they can text as mates, but not messages like that x x
Wow thats a bit much..maybe the other bloke is gay? Or is he really a bloke? I’d be fuming if it was like that all the time..tell him to turn his phone off when hes home and tell this person he needs to calm it down a lot xx
i wouldnt b happy either, maybe ask ur OH to have a word with him to back off a little bit. hugs hun x
its abit strange xx
it is a little weird, but talk to him tell him how u feel, just remember it is a man he is txting tht is the shining start but just tlk to him.
I would be concerned as well hunnie, you will have to talk to him and get straight answers.xx