I cancelled my wedding 2 months before the big day as I didn’t love my partner as much as I thought I did. He was jilted at the alter and I don’t regret the choice I made. We are still living together because of money issues which make things hard; however we have vowed to stay friends for our son’s sake, which is our main focus.
Three weeks after I cancelled the wedding I met this guy online his name is *Scott and for me it was love at first sight, yes I know I haven’t seen him face to face yet, I couldn’t control how I felt it just happened.
We chatted online, texts on the phone every day for 7 weeks before we met up and due to my situation at home we ended up going away for a weekend as our first date. Seems crazy I know but it felt so right. I remember getting to the hotel first and he texted me when he was down stairs. I really started to panic but as I walked down the stairs in my little black dress and heels and saw him looking at me all the panic faded away and it was like lightening hit me it was defiantly love at first sight.
We took his things up to the room and he just dumped his suitcase and kissed me. I’d been waiting a whole 7 weeks for this moment and it felt amazing, he was gentle but passionate and I knew he had wanted this too.
Within minutes of seeing each other we were in bed and I’m not usually the type of person that would just jump in to bed. I have a 2 week rule, but everything just went out the window. It was better than I imagined, he was passionate and gentle, he want to please me in a way I’ve never been pleased before. It was all about me, I could feel his arms tightening around me, holding me and it was just like watching a film, the perfect love scene.
Our whole weekend was packed with affection and going out as a couple, we even got called Mr and Mrs. By the time it came for both of us to leave I had a lump in my throat, I had all these feelings inside me and I just wanted time to stand still. He held me one last time and kissed me goodbye and i set off the 2 hour drive home.
I got a text straight away, he told me how perfect the weekend was and how he wanted to see me again. So 4 weeks later were still talking every day and we are meeting up for another weekend away, this time I’m going to his.
It’s not so easy to see each other with the 3 hour drive in between us but hopefully we can make it work. He is my very own Christian Grey .I never thought I would find someone this good, I thought they only lived in movies but I guess dreams can come true.
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Aw he sounds lovely, hope everything works out for u both, all the best for the future xx
Wow, living with your ex must be awkward! Haha. Glad you’ve found a nice bloke though, hopefully you’ll be able to get on with your lives together soon
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What a strong lady u must be to jilt ur other half at the alter,when i was gettin married i knew i never loved my now ex-husband when i went to church i was hoping he had changed his mind but no he was there and i cudnt do that in a church full of people and it eventually took me a wasted 20 yrs to leave,it was never the right time,i really hope it all works out for u this time hun xx
aww what a lovely story with a happy ending :O) xxx
Everyone deserves to be happy. Sometimes our lives ain’t exactly black and white.
I hope your new man brings you all the happiness in the world X
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so cute glad he makes u happy x
well done for telling your ex how you felt before the wedding i bet alot of people in that situation wouldnt have been so honest and gl to you and your new bf xx
Glad you were honest to your ex
and glad your happy in your new relationship. Everyone deserves honesty and happiness x
Everyone deserves to be happy hun .. and like Kayleigh says at least you were honest with your ex, all the best for the future
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So glad you found that someone special who makes you happy, good luck to you both for the future. xx
aww this made me smile while i was sat reading it you deserve to be happy and at least you didn’t marry someone you didn’t love i wish you all the best for the future keep us updated xxx
Awwww what a lovely story xxx
Awww happy for you x
Lovely story, glad you are happy xx