My dad raped me and my 7 sisters, I was only 9 months old and my mum didn’t do a thing to stop him. This is the first time I have spoken out about this and I am 25 years old. I was placed in foster care when I was 18 months old and would stay there till the age of 16.
I hate the feelings I have inside
I was far too young, I don’t really know what happened but I do remember going to court every year because my mother was trying to get her kids back.
My dad had been giving my sisters a bath and my other sisters walked in as he was molesting them.
Another time my mum was changing my sisters nappy when she needed to get the powder so she called my dad to come and hold her, when she got back my sister was screaming and all red and swollen. She didn’t do a thing about the abuse my father subjected us too.
She has schizophrenia but that still doesn’t change a thing, why would a mother allow this to happen to her children?
My brother grabbed my dad a few years ago and tried to get him to tell him what happened, to tell him the truth. My brother grabbed hold of my dad’s fingers and cut his fingers with a knife as he wrote down everything that happened. I never saw the bit of paper but I heard about it and it wasn’t nice.
My foster family where nice but it was hard going to school and when people said me and my mum did this or that I used to get upset because I never knew what it was like.
I never had a mother to go shopping with or too talk to like mother and daughter bond.
My foster family were very strict, we had to ask for food , got 5 dollars for pocket money and had to clean our rooms every Saturday and she would check to see if there was dust and if there was dust we had to clean everything again.
I wish I had a normal life. I wish I knew what it was like to have a normal family. I may not know much about family but I sure as hell am going to give my daughter the best life ever.
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how awful. i am sorry i am completely lost for words. hugs hun xx
your so brave for speaking out about this, i cant imagine what u have been though. i hope he gets what he deserves xxx
What a heart breaking story, I wish you and your daughter the best life ever, xxxxx
bless you hun how awful! your very strong for speakin out about your ordeal, what a monster your dad is! hel have tto live with it forever hun and face those demons when hes time is up, big hugs to you hun xx
OMG huni, you are so brave to speak out, my heart goes out to you and no doubt you will be the best mummy ever. Massive hugs xxxx
aww hunnythats awful xxx hugs xx
I have huge respect for you for talking about your ordeal. Your children will be so proud of you for breaking the cycle and moving forward with your life xx
Aww hun , Your so brave , My heart really does go out ta ya <3 BIG HUGS!! Xxx
Massive hugs hunni, you may not have had the best family ever but your daughter sure will. Well done for sharing your story xx
Hugs hun. Your stronger than you think xx
Omg hun hugs xxx
your amazing for sharing this story hugs sweetie XxXXXXXXxxxXX
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You’re very brave for speaking about it, good luck in the future for you and your daughter x
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What a horrible thing to happen
you’re a very strong person and I have a lot of respect for you for speaking out x
It disgusts me what people will do. with seeminly no remorse.
Hope u are oo now hun and happy x
Massive hugs honey. You have your daughter to hug every time you feel down. God bless you X
I dont know what to say hunni, massive hugs to you x x
massive hugs hun x
masice hugs sweet your amazing for sharing this story i wish you all the best in life x you deserve it x
all i can say is huge hugs hun your so brave speaking out and i wish you and your daughter all the luck in the world xxx
such and upsetting story! im glad you felt brave enough to share it with us *big hugs*
Omg Hun I don’t know what to say. I hope he rots in hell for what he did
Huge hugs xx
So strong for speaking out! I don’t know what to say except huge hugs xx
Your amazing for speaking out about this. I cant find the words to write here except to say massive hugs xx
Hugs and a massive well done for telling ur story
Hugs! My heart goes out to you..no1 should have to go through that. I wish you and your daughter every happiness x
Awww what a horrific childhood you had.. xxx big hugs xxx