I have a worried lady who contacted me via email to ask for your help. Her relationship is going through a rocky patch and she is constantly worrying that her partner is hiding something.
It does not help that this guy has cheated in the past, not on her but in his last relationship. She thinks he is hiding something and asks for your help via Ask A Mum
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While once a cheat always a cheat springs to mind, people do and can change. I feel for you as I know many women allow these feelings to build up inside and it is actually that which causes relationship issues.
You need to sit down with your partner and voice your concerns. Ask him out right, is he cheating? Explain that because he has a past history of cheating, this is now playing on your mind. What you have to remember is you knew he was a cheat when you got with him.
If talking is not an option then why are you in this relationship? A relationship that is built upon lies and mistrust is not healthy and will not last.
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I think u need to sit down and talk with him about how your feeling otherwise things will get worse
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What makes you think he is hiding something? Had he suddenly changed? Being more protective with his phone? Not as loving towards you? i.e no goodbye\goodnight kiss, doesn’t hug as much, sex life gone downhill
Those are the most usual signs of cheating. I wouldn’t ask out right if he is cheating, unless you have proof. He could be worried about something, illness or sex related, money etc.
But you should talk to him, tell him he is acting strangely and if something is wrong then he can tell you and that you are worrying regardless of him trying to protect you.
I hope there is a simple explanation for his behaviour.
Good luck xx
Sit him down and ask, if he is not then fine if he is you will know even if he denies it hugs its not easy xxx
I think you need to sit down and have a talk with him. I wouldn’t ask him out right if he is cheating, because if he isn’t it may lead to him thinking that you don’t trust him and that could cause more agro.
I would talk to him about the things that are making you think he is cheating, because there must be reason, like changes in his behaviour around you or towards you.
There could be another reason for the change, and it’ll be a lot easier for the both of you if you each can talk to one another.
I hope it isn’t what you are thinking.
Hugs xx
I’d sit him down and ask if he’s okay, and if the relationship is alright as u feel that somethings wrong. If after you have ur chat ur still concerned then ask him outright
Sit him down and talk to him xx