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A day in the life of a collared slave.
I will start with a diary of a typical day in my life. I’ll give more info after.
7:15am -wake sir up with a blow job then have vanilla sex
7:45am -our little girls wakes up, bring her in to sir, go downstairs, do her a bottle and make a cup of tea for us both
8am -ask sir if he wants to pick my outfit and underwear for the day. 9 times out of 10 he lets me pick
8:20am -sir leaves for work. He will have left a list of jobs/tasks downstairs. They could be everyday things like do washing, clean downstairs etc. or it could be put foil balls in your bra and keep them in for 2 hours, send me photographic evidence.
8:30am -do mine and our little girls breakfast, get us both dressed
9am -start jobs for the day, usually takes me till about midday
midday: -do mine and our little girls lunch and wash up
4:30pm -do our little girls tea
5pm -start our tea so it is ready for when sir gets home at 6 -bath our little girl
6pm -sir gets home. serve dinner
6:30pm -do washing up, tidy kitchen, put sirs clothes out ready for the next day
7pm -sit on floor near sir, watch TV while he strokes my hair and rubs my shoulders
8pm -give our little girl her last bottle and put her to bed. -put on the outfit that sir has put out ready for me, and put on collar and cuffs, this is where each night varies.
If he’s in a fun playful mood I will be hog-tied and he will use the Hitachi wand on me until I orgasm rather explosively, then I will be whipped with the flogger until I come out of sub-space. Sub-space you go in to when the pleasure becomes too much, you go all floaty and have no idea what is going on, I usually can’t walk or talk very well for about 30 minutes after coming out of it but the only way to get me out of it is to cause me pain. For each person its different though.
We could have an anal training night where I have a butt plug put in me for 1-2 hours or a sensory deprivation night which is very sensual, or we could just curl up on the sofas for the
night and watch a film.
If sir gets a hard on, I am expected to give him a blow job, or sort it out another way, if he aches I give him a back massage, if I 
don’t I get punished, but when you know the rules its easy to stick to them.
The only trouble I have is not answering back or being sarcastic. punishments include orgasm denial, not allowed to wear underwear for a day, flogging, spanking, or humiliation on web cam.
For every task I do for sir I get a ‘subby star’, when I get to 50 I get a treat of my choice then we start again. A the start of each week I have to write down 3 things I want sir to do, 3 things I want to try, and 3 new things to try. It keeps things interesting.
You may be asking yourself why I do this, I get off on it. I love being controlled, being ‘forced’ to do things. I do this out of choice and I trust my master completely. He knows what I can take, and what I can’t. He looks after me if I’m ill or injured. He is very caring and compassionate and is the ONLY man that has made me orgasm. We have been together 3 years and got married last year. we have a 6 month old daughter together as well.
If anyone has any questions please pass them on to Emma and I will answer them through her.
About The Real Supermum
Great in sight to it all hun – answers questions people might have thanks for sharing it lol – can I just say the top pic looks *painful* lol x
this is me BTW lmao changed my name so it’s easier in future x
Wow you’re lifestyle is unusual.. its something id love to try though well done for sharing x
actually speechless…i couldn’t do it, if my other half even tried telling me what do/wear he’d be out, and sub-space? i’ve never heard of it but if you have no feeling and are floaty for 30 mins, surely thats not a very responsible thing to do having a child in the house? what if there was an emergency, not judging each to their own, just my opinion.
Her husband is in the house so I don’t see how it’s irresponsible ..
I dont see any problem with your lifestyle at all.
I dont think that its not a responcible thing to do at all. Thats a stupid comment as clearly its done in private and nobody gets hurt or exposed to anything others find unsuitable.
I can definately see the attraction and the fact at no point was any pain involved means a lot of people will be shocked i think.
Im all for fun, and you obviously love what you do as well as whats done so i say go for it
i dont really like pain, so we do steer away from it x
Sarah my husband is in the house so how the hell is that irresponsible? Think before u speak dear and dont be so judgemental!
Well said hun! x
to be honest when i was with my ex i did all the things you did (bar the morning bjs and sex lol) and i never one received a rub or stroke at the end of the day. well jel, you sound happy and really thats all that matters, you two sound like you have found your equal
i love it cos everything i do for him i get appreciation for. that’s something a lot of women don’t get x
spoke to my ex yesterday, just told him about the things you and your oh have told us about your relationship and the only thing he said was ‘they sound like they trust eachother completely’
looking forward to hearing more
Nice to see how the other half lives! Thanks for sharing!
Sounds hot as hell to me x
it is! lol x
I don’t see the problem! I also don’t see how it is irresponsible. Wouldn’t be getting out of your face and bringing home a stranger be irresponsible? This is a loving, perfectly normal relationship during the day and at night they have a bit of extra fun….. Good on ya! X
Its amazing you both have that must trust in each other to live your lives this way, pleased you wrote this chick shows that relationships like yours aren’t about making the woman unhappy. Also I like the whole list of things, your sexual relationship will never be boring x
Amazing insight Hun!! Thank u for sharing. Xx
Open minded and there is nothing wrong with ya having fun like This not like ur hurting anyone hun i Cant wait to be doing This full time
it is soooo much fun! lol x
as i said, i wasnt judging, just trying to understand how a person can live like this, whether its yourself been the sub, or your hubby been the dom, either way i wouldnt like to be in any of your shoes, again just my personal opinion, and yes if you dont know what your doing from being ‘floaty’ then yes that is irresponsible when your have little ones in the house, if i got drunk and didnt know what i was doing for half an hour i’m sure alot of people would call me irresponsible,
This must keep the relationship very exciting! Loved that you shared this with us,. I love being controlled but not quite to that extent lol. But sounds great. And its good that you get a reward for all your hard work so it doesn’t go unnoticed and you get back rubs! lol xx
Oh my i think its fab u can b like that for each other. Personaly i couldnt cus i dont like being told wat to do. But aslong as the child doesnt see it. Then i dont c it being wrong enjoy whilst u can. Xx
Each to their own if u r comfortable and safe then what’s it matter as long as ur baby is taking care off ( which sounds like she is) then good for u… Nothing wrong with a bit of spice xxxx
Personally i think this is fab! It obviously works for you. Personally it isnt something i could do full time. Cant believe people are saying its irrisponsible – there is still another adult in the house who is able to care for the child!! are they not understanding that?! Thats like saying no mother can get drunk even if the father is home sober – poor sheltered minds.
Sarah you dont seem to get the fact that my husband is there and he is perfectly lucid so how is that being irresponsible? Thats like saying if you had to take tablets that may make u drowsy u shouldnt be looking after your kids! It is nothing like being drunk as it doesnt last ages. It is the feeling most women get after a bloody good orgasm so i feel sorry for u if you have never experienced that!
sophia, i dont understand why you are getting ratty, its only an opinion, i never once judged nor was i harsh on what i said, if you dont like that people have different opinions maybe not best to post on the blog?
and as for orgasms hun, what i experience in the bedroom is makes me more than happy, i dont need to be forced to do anything to have a bloody good orgasm! i actually feel sorry for you, been manipulated and controlled its just a horrible thing, i dont know how you can call it love?
That’s bang out of order I personally think .. her and her husband love each other and they love what they do! It’s perfectly normal . She shared it in the blog so people can have an open mind and so people understand what it’s like, maybe you should keep your shallow mind thoughts to yourself? Sorry Sophia but no one has a right to say stuff like that x
we call it love because thats what it is sarah!
Seriously love you ought to invest yourself in a bloody good shag once in a while, I’m not in a dom/sub relationship and I go in the same way! Doesn’t make me irresponsible as I know my partner is available should he need to be. Don’t make comments unless you’ve been in that situation yourself!
Seriously Sarah how can you say you feel sorry for her when clearly you don’t understand the life she lives. She has ultimate control, if she didn’t want to do something I know Sophia she’s strong enough to put her foot down and say no. And as for being forced to do something, again she has ultimate control you seem to forget she chooses this lifestyle, her husband isn’t holding a knife to her throat, it’s a very healthy stable relationship. How is it any different to people having a day to day routine? I know if I don’t make Rob a coffee in the morning I’m punished by him being in a mard for the rest of the morning so how is it any different other than her punishment is of a sexual nature?
Well said Zoe! Completely agree with everything you said ..
thank you zoe! glad other people understand! x x
woooow where did the bitchiness come from? its a controlling relationship, and not just in the bedroom either, as sophia said its all through the day, i’m all up for a bit of kinkiness in the bedroom but jeeeeez this is taking it too far! its not normal.
Mind you I suppose comments like yours should be expected, people fear the unknown and things they don’t understand.
Seriously Sarah how can you say you feel sorry for her when clearly you don’t understand the life she lives. She has ultimate control, if she didn’t want to do something I know Sophia she’s strong enough to put her foot down and say no. And as for being forced to do something, again she has ultimate control you seem to forget she chooses this lifestyle, her husband isn’t holding a knife to her throat, it’s a very healthy stable relationship. How is it any different to people having a day to day routine? I know if I don’t make Rob a coffee in the morning I’m punished by him being in a mard for the rest of the morning so how is it any different other than her punishment is of a sexual nature?
Mind you I suppose comments like yours should be expected, people fear the unknown and things they don’t understand so they feel the need to challenge it.
Not normal? Its perfectly normal. Shes not being forced into anything, she complies willingly! When shes doing the floaty thing if there was a reason too she could be bought out of it very quickly. Her husband takes great pleasure out of getting her like that and who wouldnt want the partner to be blissed out?
Saying its not normal is bang out of line because whats normal? Miss kinks is perfectly normal and tottally petverted but fuck it thats why people love her.
Well said Shell!
You find me anyone on this blog/group that is “normal” and they’d probably look weird against us lot I can tell ya
Each to their own is my opinion but I don’t like how Sarah is being jumped on for having an opinion, I thought the idea of this blog was for people to share their opinions and just because hers is different to everyone else’s doesn’t mean she should be criticised x
I think it’s the fact that Sarah has called her irresponsible. And the whole control thing is part of their lifestyle. There’s no need to pity her, she’s a grown adult who chose that lifestyle. It doesn’t effect her child, n if she am be brought out of the “floaty” space by pain I’m sure it’d be the same if there was an emergency. Everyone has different opinions n let’s face it it’d be boring if we were all the same but don’t judge someone’s parenting ability on there sex life.. I get that feeling after “vanilla” sex does that mean I should become celibate?
Thank you for the insight into your life, it’s amazing the trust and love that must be between you and your husband, be it in his husband and father roll, or his roll as your Dom. I’ve often thought about discussing this side of things with my oh, most of my previous relationships, without even realising at the time, have been mild Dom and sub, but I know he wouldn’t understand and tbvh I don’t think he’d like it. I was reading the q and a the other night with your “sir” and it was so tempting to message him for advice, but I was too shy
But big hats off to you for sharing, I don’t believe it’s unsavoury or irresponsible in the slightest, small minds will condemn and all that jazz xxx
Personally , and from knowing the person this blog was written by personally, id like to say fair flaming play to her! At the end of the day , her daughter see’s none of it, she just see’s her mommy and daddy , thats all she needs to see
. Shes a healthy happy little girl, and what they do after she is in bed has no effect on her whatsoever. If this keeps their relationship alive and their sex life healthy , and they are both happy and comfortable then go for it i say!
Nobodys jumping on her, we are just offering our opinions too.
cant take it, dont give it.
thank you lauren, i’m actually shocked at how bitchy most of these comments are, after reading this story the 1st thing that came into my head was the welfare of the child whilst the mother is so ‘spaced out’.i just wrote what i thought, i never said anything bad or called anyone any names, i dont like the situation, it would be my worst nightmare to live like that but its not my life, this blog always asked for different comments and i gave one, i dont see why i am been set upon for having my own opinion?just pure bitchiness.
and shell ….cant take it, dont give it?
maybe if sophia couldnt take the mixed opinions on it she shouldnt of posted it?
I think its brilliant! Theres no boring weeks in your house! As long as youre both happy with it which you clearly are then good on you both!
sarah put yourself in my shoes, your calling me an irresponisible mother for having an orgasm. and i can take it. i wrote this as i was asked to, i didnt ask for pity or for you to judge me. my little girl is very well looked after and her welfare is fine. there are a lot more children worse off than her. i am not in an abusive or unstable relationship. we love each other very much. i haven’t been bitchy to you or attacked you personally as you have to me. so please stop it. you have given your opinion several times now, so lets leave it at that please
hang on, where did i call you an irresponsible mother for having a sodding orgasm haha, sorry but this is getting wayyy beyond a joke, for anyone who thinks this is normal, you all need your heads testing, its not a loving relationship, its control, why would anyone like to be controlled to this extent, i do pity you and i feel for your kids too, because it aint right! having a kinky sex life yeah go for it, but having the control taking place in the day aswell, in a family home is just plain wrong. and yes i am judging and i am getting personal, just as you lot have with me for having a different opinion.
Sarah YOU said she was a irresponcible mother when its been proven that this is all done in a non harmfull, consensual way NOT around her daughter. He DOESNT stand over her with a bull whip demanding she put clothes in the washing machine. Her Tasks are usually every day jobs. In essence its no different to you writing out a list of what you need to do that day.
As a dom he takes care of her phisical needs, and guides her so she doesnt get stressed with daily things the same way we all do.
As a husband he takes care of ALL her needs and provides everything she wants or needs.
She is rewarded for her efforts and im telling you miss kinks is amazing.!
She loves her roles as wife and sub and quite frankly your replies show you no nothing about any of it, either that or your jealous. Attack and get personal as much as you like but it wont bring her down. She is confidant enough to know where shes happiest: on her knees, nekkid with a brew and a collar round her neck with her mouth open….lol
Ha ha shell! U make me giggle! But its all true. Im in a happy and loving relationship n having the time of my life! Nothing u can say can bring me down! X
shell. i arnt trying bring anyone down, and my slow replies show i have other things to do apart from sit at my computer 24/7, i only gave my fucking opinion thats all, get over it, jeeeeeez! and stil, no, i said the whole ‘floaty’ situation was irresponsible, i never once said she was irresponsible as a mother, and jealous? yeah ok, i really am! jealous of been told what to do, or jealous that i havent got a pimp as a husband, cus thats what it sounds like.
U have no idea how great my life is. I am sharing something that is not often spoke about for this exact reason. The negativity of people who are narrow minded and who can’t live and let live. U could have just said yeah i don’t like the sound of it, its not for me, but no u personally attacked me. That’s why everyone is jumping on you. There was no need for you to say what you did. I don’t mind criticism at all, but u won’t even try to understand so i think we will have to agree to disagree on this one x
last note from me: im not on the computer, im on my phone so therefore its rather quick replies from me. Doesnt mean im on it 24/7, so kinds of blows that cuss out of the water your end. never mind, enjoy the splashback love.
so your been petty because i dont reply straight away, i think your just trying to pick at me for what you can, i dont have time for a start! grow up chick.
go Sophia, sounds like you have a very exciting sex life. in all honesty it actually sounds like fun and something i wouldnt mind trying myself. i can only guess your life is plenty exciting. as long as your children are well cared for and you are both in complete control of everything then i dont see any problem. as far as i can see you are both free to say no at any point and you are both caring toward each other as well as respectful. TBH until i has spoke to you on Emmas page i have never heard of this, but it sounds fun and exciting and who cares what you and your husband get up to in the privacy of your own home as long as no one is hurt by what you do then its not our business. but good on you for sharing you amazing sex life xx
Each to there own n all but I can’t believe some of e comments on here everyone’s entitled to there own opinion
wooooow is all i have to say you lead a very exciting life style and id never personally do it myself i like the odd spanking ect but my partner wont do it to me haha think he is scared of hurting me :p thankyou soooo much for sharing sweetie ignore other peoples comments with hurtful things in it there no need for it
fab for sharing hun 
xxxx
thanks hun x
Sarah like I’ve said, i don’t understand how u think im irresponsible? When my husband is home too. Please can u explain it to me? And how ur worried for the welfare of my daughter. She is in no danger, so please can you explain what u mean. And i have not attacked you personally. That would be the people who see you being judgmental and jumping on a mother for sharing a story. Which your friends would do if you were in my position! And there was no need to take it to the group! That was just silly!
And thank you to the mum’s that aren’t being nasty and judgmental. I will we doing a weekly blog on sex related issues. So please look out for it! X
Will be keeping my eye out for these hun, you’re amazing and bugger the rest! x
Sarah I get that floaty feeling and can’t move after good sex so does that mean I should stop sex altogether?? Also I’d personally love a man in charge instead of having to moan at them to do stuff and them not even being bothered anymore, I think you need to read into it more..
have i taken anything to the group?? no i havent, i just explained why i was leaving, as i thought it was the right thing to do considering i have been there for over 2 years! i have not said anything wrong, and i have already explained my opinion and why i believe what i do, i have only gave my opinion, after all thats what the blog is for, according to emma who inboxed me this morning! so i dont see how i’ve done anything wrong?
No doubt I’ll find some more questions for you Sophia, expect them for at least a month cus I’m slow lmao x
any more questions hun? u no i’m always happy to answer them! x
you just don’t get it at all do you sarah? lol! thats alright Zoe! i’ve had LOADS of questions! ha ha! x x
i wasnt having a go in the 1st place, i was only stating my opinion, as posting a story on the blog, i thought you’d expect that, and i’ve thought about it, i dont like the idea of someone been in a controlled relationship, if you were a family member or my daughter, i’d be very upset that your living your life that way, but if thats how you want to life then go for it! more fool you. you can still have a good sex life without been controlled 24/7 …i just hope your children dont see the control your ‘husband’ has over you, as they could grow up thinking its a normal way of living.
Very interesting read:) Thankyou for sharing it with us all
x
Sophia could you please ask your hubby to gag her lol !!!
Seriously getting on my tits now and usually all i have on them is marks lol.
hmmm just to get back in the spirit of this post i feel its time to say what a very spankable bottom you have my dear! Lol. now if you will excuse me i have to go and sharpen my whip. theres a guy chained up in my cellar. he likes it rough …haha
If your happy that’s all that matters. I know I couldn’t do it I’d be too tempted to break his nose lol
I’ve read this blog post, and re-read it… and to be fair… There’s something deep down quite exciting about it. I’d love to read more. I just love reading about your lifestyle to be honest. X
i will be having a weekly slot on the blog! then next posts going up are from the Dom Q&A night with my hubby!
omg im sooo jealous of ur sexlife. i have always wanted.to try a sub/dom relationship with o/h but he isnt really comfortable with the ide =(
good on ya for having the balls to write this Sophia xx
I’m a person who has ultimate control over my life my kids lives and my work life I make all the day to day decisions so relinquishing control to my partner is amazingly comforting and a massive rush I trust him implicitly and that in itself is a massive turn on I don’t care if people do not understand my lifestyle choices or if they find it offensive or confusing don’t knock it til you’ve tried it “vanilla” sex to me is boring and repetitive don’t judge what you don’t understand
i am glad there are others out there that know what i am on about! thank you x
We trust each other implicitly! But i think that trust is part of every relationship x
We have just joined a site called fetlife and are hoping to meet with others who enjoy kink we aren’t swingers or anything but this should give us a chance to meet with others who get what we do so we can talk openly without being judged
not a big pain person but thanks for sharing hunni xxxx
Sounds really excitingggg thanks for sharing xxx
Interesting! Thanks for sharing
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Wow thanks for sharing!
I would love it give it ago! Xx
wow! amazing insight into it, cant believe im only just seeing this lol, shocked by the above comments from what id read up (never done the dom sub thing) full consent is given and if at any time either is uncomfortable it can be stopped??? its not a controlling relationship of the abusive kind to me it seems like a sort of role play if that makes sense, a bit of spice is healthy in a relationship…send some my way
xx