I love what I do, yet despise it at times. Along with the laughter and fun comes the tears and the heartaches.
While I may never get to meet so many of my mums, they all hold a special place in my heart. I come to know them and their babies and children and they became apart of my extended family.
While my Inbox is open to all, I dread a certain message.
The loss of one of our babies effects the whole group, we feel the pain, we grieve for a baby we do not know, yet that pain is real and the heartache remains with us all for some time.
What am I meant to say?
With tears running down my face I think of the best way to offer my condolences.
When my mind is thinking why the fuck is life so cruel?
I don’t often swear, yet can think of no other words to use.
I will stand by, help, support and do all I can for our mum, yet I can not give her want she wants, that is her baby back.
This mum has gone though so much, yet the one thing that kept her going was the thought of her beautiful baby at the end of it, that has now been taken away from her.
I question my faith at these times.
Rest In Peace our beautiful little Angel. Your mummy will be taken care of, we will all look after her and I know you will always remain with her in that special place only a mummy knows and feels.
We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord
That connects us ’til birth
This cord can’t been seen
By any on Earth.
This cord does it’s work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.
I know that it’s there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.
The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can’t be destroyed
It can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.
And though you are gone,
Though you’re not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.
It pulls at my heart
I am bruised…I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.
I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can’t take it away!
About The Real Supermum
Always know you have the love and support of 1000 mums. Nobody can ever say anything to take the pain but I hope we can help you to heal in some way. Sending love and hugs your way xx
Tanya,I am so sorry for your loss.We are all here for you.
R.I.P little one xx
Tanya hunni, so sorry for whats happened to you, thinking of you, if ever you need a chat or rant you know where to find us all, sleep tight baby angel xxx
Big big big hugs hun im so sorry hun thinking of u and r.i.p little angel
Sweet Dreams beautiful angel…. fly high. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this terrible time. Its hard to find the right words to say…. But please know that we are all here for you and will help you in any way we can. My friend also had an angel baby last week. Bigs hugs to you and im so sorry for your loss….
These are my footprints
so perfect and so small.
These tiny footprints
never touched the ground at all.
Not one tiny footprint
for now I have wings.
These tiny footprints were meant
for other things.
You will hear my tiny footprints
in the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angel’s tears
of joy and not from pain.
You will see my tiny footprints
in each butterflies’ lazy dance.
I’ll let you know I’m with you
if you just give me the chance.
You will see my tiny footprints
in the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind
and call each one that grieves.
Most of all these tiny footprints
are found within your heart.
‘Cause even though I’m gone now
We’ll never truly part.
Tanya i dont know what to say or even could imagine what you are going through, My thoughts are with you and your family. And when i read the news, i shed a tear for you and your beautiful little angel. I had prayed that she would keep figthing so she could meet her lovely mummy and be looked after by you so well. My inbox is always open if you ever need a chat. I may not know you, but all you mummies on this group are like my extended family, and i want to help you so much, but no words will take away the pain you are feeling. Much love Tanya x x x x
RIP princess.. So sorry for your loss Tanya. Xx big hugs Xx
:’( words cannot describe how much i feel for you right now, i wish i could take the pain away for you &make things better! Know that your angel will be with you every single step of the way for the rest of your life! We @ Supermums will help you get through, you can shout, scream, vent & just let us be there for you. We are always here to support you! Huge hugs & lots of love, thinking of you ♥
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… Another angel too good for earth, gone too soon. RIP baby.
Lots of love and hugs to you to Tanya.
Thinking of you all at this sad time.
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This is from Amy mummyofsixandoneangel gough x x x
So sorry hunny. R.I.P little one xxxx
Sheena Wathall
Tanya hugs are cumin ur way frm me at ths sad time nothin I can say will bring back ths lovely lit baby. All I wana say is tht ths precious baby will be forever cherished by u and ur wonderful family I hope tht ths lit girl will look down on u all and guide u back 2 a strong lady tht u will soon be. I hope and pray tht u will learn 2 smile again soon
I wish i could take ur pain away huni. i spoke 2 u a few times on emma’s page and u were always so nice n helpful, u don’t deserve this. nobody does. my inbox is always open if u ever need 2 chat, i’m so sorry 4 ur loss. i hope ur hurt and grief passes quickly huni xxxx
Big hugs babe my heart goes out to u and your family. My thoughts and prays are with u at this sad time r.I.p little one xx
Tanya,
Nothing in the world will ever take the pain of your loss,
my words are humble and few,
but I know up there in Heaven
A bright tiny angel looks down on you.
RIP Beautiful baby girl.
We are all here for you Tanya. xxx
Rest in peace little 1 my thoughts an prayers are with an your family at this sad time xxxxx
so so sorry for your loss.my thoughts are with u and ur family at this sad time.rip princess xxx
Life is so cruel no words can help the millions of tears that you will shed none of our condolences can fill you empty arms where you precious baby girl should be I can offer you nothing only my love and support and hope that time makes it easier all my love xx
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at one
A tear is cried for the life lost before it had begun
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at two
A cry rings out through the deafening silence for the one who was born brand new
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at three
A hand is held as the questions begin, why did this happen to me?
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at four
Soft words are whispered as the angel goes through heavens door
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at five
A heart is broken, a sigh is spoken, as pain cuts like a knife
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at six
A thought is said, a wish is heard to say goodbye to the one you miss
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock at seven
The angels see your pain and tears and cuddle her for you in heaven
Tick tock stop the clock, stop the clock forever
Untill the day your with your angel again, heaven waits for forever.
Xxx
I am. So sorry for ur loss tanya and my through r with u big hugs chick and rip little angel
Tanya I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t even begin to know how you are feeling right now but what i do know is that if you every need to talk there are so many of us mums that are willing to listen and be your shoulder to cry on so to speak please remain strong huni you are not alone. R.I.P little princess fly high xxxxxxx
Life’s events don’t always happen,
Just as they are planned.
For you this is a trying time,
I fully understand.
Moments like the present,
Tend to upset and confuse,
I’ll try to give you my support,
In any path you choose.
I’ll listen always with my heart,
I’ll do what I can do,
I’ll hope for brighter things to come.
My thoughts remain with you.
You know your situation.
You’re alert to life’s demands;
But don’t forget I am here.
I’m one who understands!
I am Here.
big hugs tanya, we are all here for you no matter what. you are part of our family. r.i.p little angel you were only here for a short while but rest assured you were and always be loved deeply by your family xx
Tanya, i’m so so sorry about your loss. my thoughts are with you and you’re familly at this sad dime!! big hugs hun <3
An Angel with the book of life wrote down your baby's birth, and whispered as she closed the book, "too beautiful for earth"
An Angel with the book of life wrote down your baby’s birth, and whispered as she closed the book, “too beautiful for earth” — This is so beautiful and very comforting.
tanya im so sorry for your loss huni words cannot descrbe what you must be feeling right now thoughts are with you at this time.. your lil girl is looking down on you r.i.p baby girl <3 xxxxxxxx
R.I.P to a beautiful princess, tanya I no myself no words can describe what ur goin through if u ever want to talk my inbox is open for u. Big hugs xxx
I am so sorry for your loss. my thoughts are with you and your family at this time
R.I.P little angel sending you floaty kisses
xxx
RIP little angel, sending you lots of floaty kisses, thoughts are with you Tanya, I’m so sorry for your loss xxxxxxx
Thank you all so much for the kind words and beautiful poems, I am going to write these out in a little book and place it next to her.
Im overwelmed with the support im recieving from so many lovely ladies whom i havnt met, but your like another family to me.
R.I.P My beautiful daughter Lexi-Mai, who fought hard for 20 weeks. I cherish every second i had with you, i will never forget the way you felt laying in my arms, how tiny you was but so perfect. You will always be apart of my Family. Love You my precious little Angel x <3 x
Tanya Im so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and youe family. Rest in peace little angel. sending big hugs and kisses to you. xx
Tanya I am so sorry for the heartbreaking loss of your beautiful angel daughter. I know the path seems so long & dark at the moment, but in time the road will get easier & you will become stronger which each small step you take & I for 1, will be there to support you all the way & pick you up if you stumble. Your beautiful girl will never ever be forgotten! Sweet dreams angel, look after your mummy always xxx
So sorry for your loss, fly High little angel!! x
Big hugs Hun, so so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine what you are going through!!! =[
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I am so sorry for your loss hunni. RIP little angel x
Fly high lil angel xxxxx
Nothing anyone can say will help the pain you’re feeling, I honestly don’t know what to say. I’m so sorry for your loss hun – beautiful poem
R.I.P fly high little angel x