I met David when I was 18 in a place where me and my best friend used to go to shop for dvds and games, he was in the anime section, looked really sweet and I kinda fancied in straight away as I liked goth guys.
I picked up a dvd and smiled at him and said “is this one any good?” He said “it is yes!” He didn’t talk to me much but I did eventally ask
for his number 
the 1st txt I got off him was “I will c u 2moro” and I was so happy! Ithen got up early next day and I ran out of credit but seen one of my friends and he gimme some money so I could call him, I called him and asked if we could meet at disney store, he looked amazingly gorgeous, black spikey hair and gothic looking guy I was only 18 had a crush maybe ?
We hung out for a bit and I got to know him a little more and seen a friend of his who got me together with him… I liked him but couldn’t do it myself asking him out. (Sorry this is long) we got close a week later when he come bk from london and he gimme some gifts like the anime things I liked etc.
I received a text off him a few days later “want to come over mine and watch anime?(Anime is the Japanese abbreviated pronunciation of “animation”.) ” I was smiley and excited and said “yes” I went over to his place and went to his room, looked like a normal 19 year olds room but was fulla anime models (which made me feel uncomfy) and anime pictures.
I didn’t really give a damn them to be honest as I didn’t actually know what he was into then. (Sorry may cry) we watched some random anime which I liked but a few months later he said “I have a lot of hentai (porn)” at home, it means animated porn… It hurt me so bad. I felt like I was useless.
He was into rape and tying up, also gothic lolita and BDSM. I just felt so crappie thinking “he thinks I’m one of them” I just wanted to be me. When we 1st started having sex it hurt a lot and I said to him “stop” but he wouldn’t. I ended up in hospital as well. I thought I loved this guy till he started abusing me. He didn’t let me eat fatty food, wanted me to be a skinny model, wanted me to do all the work during sex, he was greedy and yea he was autistic but its sick what he did. I wish I never met him in the 1st place.
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Thats not nice, but sadly you do get some people out there like that. Glad your away from him though, he doesnt deserve you, you can do so much better x x
No matter what men are into they should never force a girl to be some thing they’re not. But sadly there are girls out there willing to do what ever there man wants and it makes me sad
Im sorry to hear this.. Its not nice. there are a lot of nasty men out there that lure vunrable people in. Im glad you got out of there. He is evil x
Sorry to hear of your experience! I’m glad you got away from him though… Many others would of been too scared! It’s crazy what some people enjoy and very scary when it is to such extremes as this! X
Hey this is my blog, and yeah, it was extreme… I never got away from him, he left me now I can’t get over what he did to me
I was too young to understand any of it, I felt I wasn’t good enough, I used to cosplay (do costume play of anime girls) to keep him happy and went through it for almost 5 yrs xx
i no u av told me about this lad hun but seriously your better out of it now and he was just weird being like that in the 1st place.. glad your away from him, dont let him rule the rest of your life be happy with your new partner and child on the way.. people like him are sick in the head if you ask me.. big hugs hun xxx
Hey Lisa, firstly, dont let the memories of it destroy your future happiness. Im nearly forty and during a particularly vulnerable time a few years ago i found myself in a relationship with a similiar sicko after coming out a messy divorce..he was into group stuff etc and i was just a normal lass looking for a nice guy and i did stuff that i would never have normally and lived with the shame for a long time…….those who says oh it would never happen to them cant say that because its not that simple, you dont intend to go along with it but you end up doing it…thats control and abuse.. ..dont be ashamed you got out right! forget it! we all make mistakes and your not the only one love to have been trapped into an abusive relationship, but you got out, your here to tell the tale, dont beat yourself up and let it overcome you and dont let it damage your self worth..your not the first lass to get trapped with a sicko and you wont be the last, your a strong woman you got out and your sharing your story, bless you honxxxxx
Well this is just another good example of why you can’t judge a book by it’s (or in this case his) cover. It obviously takes time to get to know somebody and what they are into inside the bedroom and out.
Jay is right, it takes time to fully know somebody.
Don’t be too hard on yourself Lisa, I hope you are able to move past this.
You are strong enough to share your story x
I’m so glad you are out of that relationship, I hope you find happiness soon. xx
So glad u got otu hunni…. we never really trully know ppl maybe years later…. Hope u find happiness in the future hun big hugs x