So, your shattered, you’ve just put the kids to bed and now settled in front of the TV. After having children, this tends to be the normal habbit us parents get into. Its also a habit that can and will be broken to add that spice back into your love life.
1. Play a game: role play is a great way to spice up your love life. It makes things interesting, new and exiting. You can act our your (and your partners) fantasys.
2. Have sex somewhere unusual: Try having sex somewhere other than the convetial bedroom, be bold and venture to the sofa or dining table; if your feeling really brave how about outside or in a work place.
3. Go on a date: Go out for a child free evening or day, reignite those embers from when you first started dating; before the sleepless nights and nappy changing.
4. Pamper yourself: something simple like a hair cut, or just wearing make up, will entice you partners interest and , hopefully, spark his imagination.
5. Compliment them: a compliment goes a long way.
6. Plan a night in: Plan a night in for just you and your partner, have a nice dinner together followed by snuggling up on the sofa and watching a movie.
7. Get dirty: Send him half naked pictures or sexual text messages, tell him exactly what your thinking.
8. Be spontaneous: Kids are out or in bed, pounce on him and have some fun.
9. Do something for him: go to a football game, or down the pub for a game of pool. Doing things your partner loves to do will earn you big brownie points.
10. Say I love you: It reminds your partner that, despite the lack of time together, you still love him deeply. Maybe, even drop in a ‘sexy’ in the sentence to let them know you still find them irresistible.
Amy Whyley
@amywhyley
About The Real Supermum
I love this, it’s true. I’ve done all these and they are a big help
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Love all of these amy
defo trying some of these hehe…better not dress up as a nurse tho…think it would have the opposite effect since his mums a nurse lol
Me and my other half have been together 3years and are like an old married couple already. I’ll give these a go
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Brill blog having children does change rship just have to remember to have some mum + dad time xx
I think these are gonna help alot =’)
I love this blog, very true! Im all about spontaneous..love it!!! x
It’s weird….if you think about it this is all things we used to do in our relationships when you are in the “honeymoon” period! It gets forgotten and we are all creatures of habbit!! Thanks for reminding me of what we should be doing to keep the spark going! It’s so easily forgotten xx
this is brill its so true, i will be trying some of these as our sex life seems to have dissappeared lol xx
these are all things we did in the 1st few years… but slowly after 7years they all go out the window! maybe time to introduce them again! lol
I think going back to ‘dating’ definatly helps, even just staying in and pretending, helps us anyway when one of us is stressed xx
i love this
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think i will be giving some of these a go! x
i try to compliment hubby to be daily because if nothing i want him to know I LOVE YOU
I love it when me and the oh have ‘us’ time
it don’t happen very often but we make it worth while x
good tips. all we do is veg on sofa each night. we def need us time again.
I love this!! Tried a few xx