- A study of heterosexual couples found that 19% of the women said they faked orgasms
- In a study of Danish women 68% said they had faked an orgasm
- In Shere Hite’s famous survey of women 34% said they currently faked orgasms and 19% said they used to fake orgasms.
I have faked orgasms in the past, sometimes to just get it over and done with, mostly because I did not like the person (ex husband). Women fake orgasms to make their partner feel like they have satisfied them when they had not, maybe they are actually not that great in the sack, or are far too quick. Men really do get a huge complex in the bedroom, so we like to keep them happy. Sometimes teaching them what will give us an orgasm is difficult, as they then think they are failures. It is difficult to sit your partner down and say ” By the way your not hitting the spot”.
Lots of people think they can tell if their partner is faking orgasms, but research suggests otherwise. In one study where 19% of women said they faked orgasms, only 16% of their male partners believed they faked orgasms.
Whether women like to admit it or not, I am betting many have faked an orgasm at least once!