Why do fat people ask for fashion advice??

While looking something up on Google I came across the most disgusting and vile comment imaginable in regards to the larger sized lady and fashion.

This is the exact comment that has got my back up.

 

I mean come on do you think anything will actually look good on someone say a size 18 +,  I think fat people look terrible in what ever they wear!! How about lose some weight then ask for some fashion advice! I dunno what they actually see when they look in the mirror cause it would repulse me!! I would never let myself get over a size 12/14 i would feel terrible and would never allow my child have a fat mum! Poor children get picked on something terrible for that! And you see woman size 20+ in some ridiculous outfits!! Do they actually think they look good?? Em no you look like a beach whale love :/

 

I don’t know about you, but I think this is vile and disgusting and should be removed from the comment area of the web page. What the hell is wrong with some people?  Since when did it matter what size a persons body structure is and why do some feel they are even able to make such comments?  I am assuming the person who wrote this comment is a drop dead gorgous beach babe sporting fake boobs along with a fake tan on a size 6 body frame?

I know this comment will upset many who read it, I know it did me.  Not every larger sized lady wants to loose weight, they are happy with who they are. Some may have tried to loose weight and failed and are depressed about it, others have medical problems. Do people really not know that if they have nothing nice to say, not to say anything at all?

I would never let my child have a fat mum? I would rather my child had a fat mum than one who speaks so vile and is so self centred. Perhaps this mother needs to take a look at her own parenting style. Respect and accept other people, may well be the first area she needs to look at.

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Comments

  1. davina says:

    you know what, its funny cus i have huge self-confidence issues and feel ‘fat’ even tho my BMI is good and im only a size 10. however being bigger has always worried me. despite this I always see people who are a lot bigger than what I ever want to be and they look GREAT, just today I saw a woman, she caught my eye cus she was dressed so stylish and trendy and looked good, made me think Im scared of being bigger but ive seen many bigger people who look GREAT. you can look good no matter what size you are.x

  2. laura p says:

    That comment has made me angry! I’m size 18+ and I’m trying to loose weight but end of the day are we supposed to wear hideous clothes coz were overweight? No! We deserve to wear fashionable clothes too! I would never judge anyone for being underweight so what makes this person have the right to judge an overweight person? My mum is slim but me personally would rather have a fat move who shows me lots of love and brings me up properly than a self centred judgemental idiot! What values does that give her child? Like the post says she’s probably a skinny size with perfect figure etc but she has an ugly personality! Rant over lol x

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  3. jennifer Hunt says:

    I think everyone has the potential to look fantastic whatever their size as long as they wear good fitting clothes that suit their body shape. That persons comment was disgusting bet they are not anywhere near perfect xx

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  4. That is a nasty comment to make! IM a size 18 and im happy with my life..my body has made 2 beautiful children..Yes im trying to loose weight coz ive just had a baby so still got all my baby fat but even still i would never ever in a million years say that to anyone! Some peple have no respect x

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  5. "Large Lady" says:

    I’m actually really angry and p-o’d about that! I’m a “larger” lady, but i still like to look nice?!? Why should i look like a skank just cos I’m not a stick?! I’ll be honest, I’m losing weight for health reasons and because I want to feel better bout myself, im a size 20, so what?! My oh loves my curves! Plus I can get away with wearing stuff that would look weird on petite girls! *and that by no means is a dig at smaller women*

    As Mica said – Big girls, you are beautiful!

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  6. This really has angered me, i have been overweight since the onset of puberty, and i have remained overweight all my life, i am now 36, i grew larger with each of my children, but there are lots of websites to shop on, not so many high streets, The Burton Group got the right idea when they started the ‘Evans’ shops, they are always selling their gear fast, so tell me please, are there not enough ”fat people” out there that want to look nice?? POPPYCOCK to the so called ”person” who wrote that shameful comment. I would much rather have my child to have a fat parent, than a shallow self obsessed (probably)’size zero’……… Nothing wrong with size zero’s or any other size, And one more thing, just in case the, huh,,hmmmm,,”lady” in question happens to stumble across this, as i said, i have been fat/overweight since puberty, and i have never been single. Not all people think we’re nasty.

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  7. Leanne Lancaster says:

    Confidence makes people look good! Not how skinny they are!!
    I’m a 14 and not confident at all, and people can see that.
    But then on the other hand my sister is bigger than me, id say a 14/16 and she wears short dresses + looks brill, and she seems pretty confident wearing them.
    I try on some of her clothes + refuse to wear them as it’s too short and shows off my legs too much or emphasises my mummy tummy, even though in other peoples eyes it might look okay.
    I think some women suit being larger + look amazing in certain clothes, what does it matter what size people are, aslong as they are happy + confident they can pull off whatever they want to!!
    xx

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  8. Charlotte says:

    The most beautiful trendy, well dressed woman I know is + sized. I’d love to have even a hint of her glamour!

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  9. Chell Cave says:

    OMDAYS Im a size 12 and I feel fat all the time.. doesnt matter if your a size 6 or a size 26 everyone is beauitful and this is bang out of order. I dont mean to upset anyone but no wonder there are so many young girls and boys with eating disorders THIS COMMENT doesnt put out there that it doesnt matter what size you are.

    I think that there should be more NORMAL sized people on the cat walk and magazines because a part from a few people i dont see many that are a size 0!

    The world has gone fat mad and unless the person is under pressure medically it shouldnt matter what size you are. Plus how does that person no that people that are big arent ill in any way.. the person needs a slap!

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  10. Wow…..people are lovely aren’t they?!I think other women make other women feel worse than men do!A man will love a women no matter what if he is with her when she is heavier,thin etc!I’m a size 14+i was a size 10 before my daughter+a size 18 during+for 5months after pregnancy…..ok personally I didn’t like being a size 18 but some women carry it off beautifully!My mother is a size 20+i wouldn’t call her fat!Who the hell is anyone else to say what’s fat,what’s thin,what’s ugly?etc!

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  11. I will be the first to admit that I am over weight in fact very over weight and at a size 20/22 there is no hiding that fact. Ok so us “fat” people may not look as nice in some outfits as a “not fat” person and yes I will admit that I have looked at some people and thought to my self that they dont carry that outfit well and should reconsider thier fashion faux pas but then I have seen very very skinny people wearing some things and thought to my self gosh that really doesnt look nice on them. Where does it say that just because we are a little more rotund than others that we have to wear bin sacks as clothes. I suppose this person would say that “fat” people like me need not wear make up or fashionable shoes ..etc

    God help her kids if that is the attitude they have to grow up around and from my experience people get bullied for all sorts not jus being “fat” I ha ve always been big and never been buliied, ok I have had the odd comment thrown my way her or here but heck my friend got bullied as she was very skinny

    On the subject of looking good as a plus sized person though, this comes at a cost… I mean we pay extra for the clothes compared to say a person of a size 12/14 but understandabley this is because of the extra fabric surely a little extra fabric can not justify a £10-15 increase on an item of clothing not sure if I can mention the store I am refering to on here but the store really makes its money out of us “fatties”

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  12. You can look good in clothes whatever size you are.
    Im a larger women and always felt i looked horrible when i was younger to the point i dressed in baggy clothes so that i felt better with everything covered up. Since being with my oh and having my lil boy i have the confidence to dress in jeans and nice tops and not hide away from the way i look. Yes i am a larger woman but i look good in nice clothes and feel good in myself xx

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  13. Sammi ♥ says:

    I just hope none of her children will ever see that comment and realise how shallow, insensitive and nasty their mother is.

    I’m sure children would rather have ‘fat’ mums than nasty ones…

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  14. Sarah bloomer says:

    After having my son i was a size 20 having been no bigger than a 14 all my life i was depressed at first but there are many clothes shops that sell very good larger sizes im now in a size 16 and love my curves. Who ever wrote that comment is stupid id like to see gok one punch her then put a belt round her mouth

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  15. That comment was very nasty and bigger people look very good if they wear the right sized clothes. The only time they look a mess is when they say they are a size 14 and try too squeeze in to that size. YES woman of a larger size deserve fashionable clothes, I think they look grear when dressed nicely x

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  16. Katrina Parkin says:

    That’s absolutely awful!!! Some people are so insensitive. What about the people that have been trying for years to loose weight or a medical condition that makes it hard for them! Arghh!! xx

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  17. Anonymous says:

    Can not believe she wrote that yes I am fat I am the first to admit it I an also depressed because if it and her views do not make it any better sorry we don’t fit your perfect clan but I would rather be fat and have good friends like I do than to be skinny and hateful.

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  18. sallie says:

    I would rather be a larger sized mum with good morals, respect for people and my head in the real world, than be a slim mum who clearly is very self centred, judgmental and to put it nicely a not very nice person. What sort of an example is she setting for her children! There’s one word to sum up this woman. Idiot.

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  19. Joey x says:

    My sister is a size 18, and she looks fab it what she wears. Shes wears what suits her. A-line dresses that skimp in the waist and bold patterns. I say ‘pfffffft… to that comment. Some people should just keep their mouth stooom.

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  20. im a size 14 after having lo and yes i am toning up etc im not ashamed, this belly wobble was my sons home lol i should embrace it! you know what they say, bigger women have more fun lol ;P

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  21. Everyone here, including the person who made the nasty remarks in the first place, is missing the point here. Being significantly overweight raises your risk of serious diseases and early death.. The issue of which clothes you wear while you progress towards diabetes, heart disease, strokes and cancer is somewhat trivial. The ‘big is beautiful’ idea may be designed to help people feel better, but prevents individuals and society from addressing the genuine problems associated with being obese.

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    • Emma Wallis says:

      I am a larger lady and have diabetes not because I’m “overweight” but because gestational diabetes (when pregnant with my first) was misdiagnosed!! I live to deal with it because of it!

  22. Tia Martin says:

    people dont purposly gain weightt, does she avtually think this comment will help any lady size 18+ rude girl.. my m8 is a size 18/20 and we went shoppin last week and she wanted a dress and it only went to a size 16, and her comment was: i understand it may be mor emoney to get bigger sizes, and maybe i should loose weight but why not make them,? which is very true, im a size 8, and after i had my lo i was a 12 and i LOVED it, curves bum hips!.. this women is jus plain rude, childish and clearly very self-concious, bcos other wise why would she write this!! x

  23. Ok so being fat is disgusting and unhealthy what planet do you people live on yes we all know the health implications of being overweight but there is also implications to people who choose to drink, smoke and take drugs unfortunately most people who are overweight don’t get a choice and there are many medical reasons as to why people are obese and as for not looking nice well that is your opinion but let me tell you there are many slim people that don’t have a clue how to dress nicely as overweight ones and as the majority of people in this country are a size 14 or above perhaps you best start walking around with your eyes shut and if your nasty rude comments are anything to go by I would keep your mouth shut as well and yes I’m a large lady and a happy one at that!!!!

  24. Carol Staples says:

    Well I am a gran now and was always size 12 but because of a totally incurable back condition I am now a size 18. I am unhappy about it but can’t move about much so have no choice. What that person said first of all reduced me to tears. And reading the post from :D octor” has made me feel even worse. That might be medically sound but it is also quite a brutal statement “Doctor”. I hardly eat as it is, what am I supposed to do. No wonder I am on antidepressants

  25. sallie says:

    ‘Doctor’ everyone knows the risks that being over weight CAN bring. But that’s not what this post is about is it? It is about how some people in society judge before they know a person and make comments about the way people look rather than the person they are. But can I also point out that not EVERY overweight person gets so ill and people get those diseases for reasons other than being overweight. I think if ur a ‘doctor’ as ur name suggests, you should get ur medical facts straight before commenting on posts such as these.

  26. Jessica Markham says:

    That comment wasnt very nice at all, so what if a woman is bigger or smaller than what she is suppose to be, thats her choice, and if she is happy then thats fine, and everyone should respect that, no judge them. Some people may not be overweight by choice, there is something called a fat gene, and the doctor above should know that, may they need to go back to medical school and learn that. I was a size 14, when feel pregnant with my 2nd child and am now a size 12, am hoping to go back to a size 6/8, but i would never judge anyone on their weight. I just hope that one day, that womans children find out how shallow their mum is, and that they have more respect for people and show their mum how to respect people that are different to themselves x x

  27. sarah jane ward says:

    I think that whatever mum who wrote that comments needs a serious reality check. I would rather a child have a fat mum than no mum at all.
    If she doesnt like what she see’s then thats her opinion but dont judge others and spread your vile comments around.
    Some people cant help what their size is due to medical conditions, medication they take. So what if some people choose to be that way, its their body and their lives. If you dont like it then tough luck. Either deal with it or keep ya mouth shut and keep it to yourself love.
    Im not exactly a small person although im in mainly size 14, depends where you shop really and i have serious trouble loosing weight and i have back problems. So a little bit of advice to the women who wrote that comment. Keep your mouth shut if all you can do is speak vile and to a point racist comments. Your opinion doesnt mean much if your “that” sort of person.

    Sorry rant over

  28. Stella Seyd says:

    some people really p me off with vile remarks like that. grrrrrrrr. x

  29. joanne says:

    I think all women should be proud of there bodies no matter what size u r. Im a size 8/10 but wud be happy even if a size 14/18 or whatever. Its the body that was given to us show it off n be proud. :-) the comment is so nasty to the + size ladies. :-( xx

  30. saphire-stuarts-mummy says:

    o.m.g Jesus Christ how absolutely vile and plane ignorant .. so what if some one is bigger who cares no ones because as long as they are happy it dont matter !!! i personally try and gain weight because of my anorexia id absolutely die for curves and look at the world famous icon marilyn Monroe many people though she was gorgeous and she wore a size 16 :) i idolize her .. ignore it all its pathetic !!!

  31. Hey Doctor EVERYONE KNOWS THE MEDICAL RISKS of being over weight but YOU HAVE MISSED THE POINT. Are seriously saying that every person who is over weight is their own fault? If you are then how stupid are you? Lots of people are over weight through no fault of their own and want to dress fashionably and they have every right to do that. If you have nothing constructive to say in a reply to a post and something that is actually in relation to the post, then shut up and say NOTHING!!!

  32. charlotte says:

    Well that comment shows there really are some nasty pieces of work around mowadays.
    I agree with some of the others its confidence and personality that make a lady/man attractive not their looks or size.
    X

  33. i think ths woman is didgusting…god help her children…like many i have said i would rather have a fat loving mohter then a self obsessed skinny one (no offence to any skinny women)…i myself am size 18+ and am not happy with my weight and am trying to lose weight but its not easy…..big girls are the same on the inside as any other person xx

  34. "Large Lady" says:

    “Doctor” – are you an actual doctor? Because I dong know any doctor that would purposely say something to make people feel worse about a problem. Bring large is not a choice, in my case I couldn’t stop it, the same as many. However, being a cowbag is, which is what you have been. I apologise for sounding hostile, but there are enough people in this world that make people like me feel bad fog no reason, how’s about you take a big portion of guilt pie and see how it tastes?

  35. Stevie x says:

    ‘Doctor’- Clearly not! No doctor would put that sort of harsh comment to make people feel like cr**. If you are one, I would consider looking at a different profession! I don’t understand why people feel the need to judge so much these days. Who cares what people do or don’t look like. It is their life, if they are happy, they are beautiful! x

  36. vicky garrett says:

    thats just plain damn disgusting!! im a size 14-16 but i have a large chest and i get a lot of looks pf people, but what i cant understand is why cant people just be happy with what theyre are given with, why is this world so judgemental on what people look like, a book should never be judged on its cover, beauty is skin deep and whatever anyone looks like they may be the nicest person you will ever get to meet if you give them a chance :)

  37. Size 22/24 says:

    That vile comment says more about the comment maker than the people he or she is slagging on. They clearly hate themselves and they fear those who may love and accept themselves as they are. People who make remarks like that will more than lkely when they find themselves overweight/obese (esp. after age 40) will be very, very defensive about it. I know because I used to be a skinny minnie who used to look down my nose at fat people. Now I’m older and large sized. Trust me, Karma can be a real motha

  38. Size 22/24 says:

    @doctor. People who are overweight/obese know the health risk because of all the the people who self-righteously shove the information down our throats every time we turn around. I don’t think denying the health risks of obesity is the problem. The real problem are those who think that it’s ok to constantly nag, harangue, harrass and annoy those who are fat as if somehow because they are thin, they’re somehow virtuous and ‘better.’ If people were truly concerned about health, then they should approach it in a caring way, not in a way that is designed to tear someone down and make them feel worse.

  39. Anonymous says:

    how self centred! maybe they ask for advice coz they want to look the best they can with their weight. maybe there that weight coz of other issues – mental or medically. maybe there trying to lose the weight and want to look the best they can to get some confidence.
    i could say the same about skinny people, i find it gross to see skin and bones on someone, but i dont jugde them for it, as its not their fault if they suffer from an eating dissorder, and are proberly trying hard to fight it. skinny or fat doesnt mean your better or worse at being a parent!

  40. faye hallows says:

    Size 22/24 and U have a thyroid condition as well as a hormone imbalance. I have done some photoshoots and if it wasn’t for becoming a mother I would still be doing it. I.wear trendy clothes. Places like new look and peacocks go upto a 24/26 so you can look stylish.
    There arw some big women who wear clothes 20-30 years out of date and several sizes too small, that as a big woman to me is a OMG would you look at that. Yes I’m big but I am healthier and fitter than my 16 year old sister who is a dancer

  41. Curvy & proud says:

    I’m a size 16 & proud of it! I couldn’t give a toss about whether i’m in the latest fashion or whether I look good in my clothes!! All I know is my ‘slim’ boyfriend can’t keep his hands off me & thats good enough for me! Please please don’t pass on your selfish shallow views onto your children, else they could end up with eating disorders! If you want to choke on your laxatives then thats fine, but don’t punish your children in the future with the poisen that falls out your mouth!!

  42. curvaceous queen says:

    I’m in size 20+ at times because I feel horrible in my body and I hate people seeing my curves. If I wanted to I could fit into size 14 but I don’t feel comfortable in them. I have medical conditions, hypothyroidism and diabetes (due to being untreated having gestational diabetes) and they make me put on weight when I’m not and lose it when I’m not (if you get me) but this comment has outraged me and it’s ridiculous that some individual feels the need to comment about larger women not being able to have fashion advice. Well excuse us for breathing LOL! We’re all aloud advice on whatever we want! x

  43. Kayle Spencer says:

    Size 22/24 here and would just like to say that being overweight does not neccessarily mean you are unhealthy, and I truly believe that I am evidence of this. My BMI when I was pregnant was 48- that’s morbidly obese!! And I still cannot get over the shocked look on every single Doctor, Nurse, Midwife, Health Care Assistant tha took my BP and then had the pleasure of telling me it was absolutley normal at which I always look at them and smile and say I know, it always is. Just because Im overweight does not mean I must have high blood pressure or be completely unfit, I can quite happily complete 11 miles on the excercise bike in 35 minutes, does it help me shift any weight- NO! I truly believe I am just always going to be one of the bigger women and I am perfectly happy about it. I can quite happily run around after my 2 year old, I love walking and swimming and dancing and do you know what I don’t care what anyone thinks when they look at me because Im with my family, having fun and I know that they will always love me no matter what!!!

  44. Laura Hey says:

    OMG what a disgusting and insulting comment! I for one am insulted, I used to be a size 22 and no matter what I did I couldn’t lose weight – and yes I liked to wear nice, fashionable clothes, what does this vile woman suggest I should have done? Walk round in a bin liner?! Since then I’ve been ill, and lost a lot of weight very quicky, I’m now a size 10 and I hate my body! I was much happier when I was bigger!
    We shouldn’t care what size someone is, and we certainly shouldn’t judge someone for their size. Everyone is beautiful no matter what! I think she needs to realise that! Small minded people like that really p*** me off

  45. overweight or not shouldnt be such an issue. if u are fat so what u can still look nice and if ur slim then ye u can look nice. theres no happy medium nowadays, people are either slated as skinny anorexic and boney or fat obese whale :S everyone is beautiful in there own way xx

  46. How ridiculous.. its people like this who will end up with children with health and weight issues!! What a disgusting comment to make!

  47. poppi anne says:

    what an evil thing to say!! its shocking just how low some people can be! xx

  48. Emma Wallis says:

    I am overwight yes I’ll admit it but “doctor” I have diabetes because the health care profession were to lazy to retest me fr gestational diabetes when I had my first so I later went onto develop type 2 diabetes through no fault of my own! My weight constantly varies from day to day because of hypothyroidism. It’s hard for me to lose weight and none of it is my fault yes I have to live with the consequences. I’m trying to lose weight but with my medical conditions it’s hard! I’m paranoid what people think and will cover myself up so as not to make myself notice but why the hell should I??? Women/men big or small have the right to feel and look good!! x

  49. Laura-Sue Evans says:

    to me if your picking on someone else because of the way they look then it shows how low they think of themselves, some people cant help being a size 18+, some people ove being biger it makes them feel good about themselves and most of all some men love bi beautiful women. we are all human at the end of the day and we all have the right to look and feel good about our selves. we can wear what we want without small minded people who more than likely dont like the way they look telling us we cant im a 12/14 myself yeah i wanna loose weight but i eat therefore im curvy get the hell over it.

  50. To be honist I dont know how a mother can be that ignorant.. so what is she gonna say if her chilld brings home a friend who isnt skinny? As for larger ladies dont look good in anything,, granted i have seen some who wear clothes clearly too small for them … but thats easily sorted. I know a few bigger women who dress very smart and classy and suit what they wear… size doesnt matter,x

  51. Helen Ford says:

    I think that this statement is disgusting, for one there are some very small women wearing ridiculous outfits and who are they to know that somebody hasn’t got a medical condition it goes both ways to those under and over weight and in accordance to clothes, come on what a trial thing it used to be that maternity clothes meant that you were stuck ‘blossoming’ in what looked like a horrid floral tent and had about as much shape as a sack. women should be encouraged to feel sexy and promote positive self image, every body is well aware of the implications of their health and hear it from all the tuts and titters that narrow minded awful people give without it being shoved fown their throat constantly. rant over i may have gone a bit off topic a few times xx

  52. Lauren Farrow says:

    This is absolutly disgusting. I am only little 8/10 and sometimes I see clothes on a larger lady and they look absolutly amazing and then I find them in a shop, try them on and they look awful on me :( Us women like to look and feel good about ourselves and fashion helps us to so that whether we are a size 6 or a 26.

  53. wow, that comment was very harsh and coming from someone very small-minded! im only a size ten but id never make a comment like that! you wonder why people end up with confidence issues and eating disorders? Thats just out of order! what are larger people meant to wear? rangs? they are people just like the rest of us, clearly whoever wrote this post can see past whats one the outside, im sorry for the larger ladies that have had to read this as if i was in their shoes id find this quite hurtful! :( x

  54. Michelle Hughes says:

    the person who wrote this statement obvs hasnt got a clue im a size 12-14 yes i need to loose weight but i wont do this been bullied by a cheeky dr who obvs has no idea about how people feel or act.My dr is an arse and tells me constantly i need to loose weight but maybe if he looked in my notes he would no my weight is so up and down mainyl due to depression and the lose of 5 babies so maybe when people see a ‘bigger’ woman they should take a closer look !!

  55. reannesmom says:

    OMG!!! this made me so angry.. so what if people are bigger than others..? as long as that person is happy they av loved ones who cares?.. i always say to my oh i fat and that since avin reanne but i only size 10/12 but i hate my body and i no people think im stupid ut cant help it.. some people cant help there size like my mom she as to take steroid inhaler and when her asthma bad asteroid tablets from the doctor. and she cant loose weight for this reason shes bout a 18 or suamt my sis as alwas been about a 16/18 my bro as always been big.. e and my othe sister follow my dad tall and smaller built.. i hate it when these girls think there the bee knees and look down at people that aint got flat stomaches a bit of flab on there thighs and what grrr.. rant over lol xx

  56. kerri goodman says:

    People like that need a realaty check… its not all about skin and bone. I’m a large well let me be 100%honest I’m a fat women size 24 and I have a husband to be that loves me and 2 beautiful children, i can still do what slimmer people do eg run for a bus without dying and look after my children, I think that was one nasty stuck up comment, if you don’t like what you see then close your damn eyes!

  57. Carla-Lou Eccles says:

    Thats just dam right rude!! I dont understand some people, are they born without a brain?? Things like this that people say, without even thinking about it effects other xx

  58. Fee Macdonald says:

    I’m a size 14 post pregnancy, but I feel myself creeping up to a 16. I don’t really care what people think. What matters is what you think of yourself, as long as you are happy in your own skin, then people have no right to judge! However, In my OPINION (not judgement) the ladies whom eat and eat and eat to like 50 stone for publicity, I think thats a bit far. But they can still be pretty too. I work with a lady who is a size 20+ and she is always looks pretty in what she wears, and takes time and effort to look nice. x

  59. Thats really riled me as i am a size 18-22 depending on where i shop. I openly admit i probably dont look very fashionable when i go out but i have my own style for one and a little girl who i would rather spend my money on being the other. I have seen some women that are size 18 plus who look amazing in what they wear. I think people of any size can make themselves look beautiful in what they wear if they have the time and the money. I do find it annoying that a lot of shops dont go upto larger sizes in their most fashionable ranges, cant they see that more of the country is getting bigger year by yeear? xx

  60. Unbelievable! That’s the problem with the internet is that it attracts anonymous haters like this – the extremes of people who face-to-face would never dare say anything of the like.

  61. Why shouldnt bigger people ask for fashion advice the same as stick insects? At least then they’ll know what does and doesnt look good surely? x

  62. Kat Dixon 2B says:

    I personally think it is disgusting what that person wrote & karma is a bitch & I hope it kicks that woman right up the ass & she wakes up size super huge!!! I am selfconscience about my size & I am currently on a diet & exercise plan to loose weight for my wedding!!! Obviously this person was not aware that there are medical conditions which make people gain weight or the medication that they take!!! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder & is definately more than skin deep, but she has no beauty as she is evil inside!!!
    xXxXx

  63. That is disgusting. Just because you have extra meat on your bones than most people you can’t look good? Of course you can..
    Every women can look good and if they feel good, look good aswell x

  64. this iratates the hell out of me!! im a size 20 and i dont look to bad i dress for my size and my shape!
    yes i admit i would never walk out the door in hotpants croptop and high heels but a nice pair of fitted jeans glam top and a nice pair of shoes and im set to go! xx

  65. As a size 22 myself (and i call myself fat i know i am) I can still look good when I dress up, and I will never be would never want to be smaller than a 12 (and yes I have been that slim in the past) and the people who bully kids with fat parents are the kids of the ass hole that wrote that comment!

  66. Emma-Jayne says:

    What a nasty piece of work that woman is.
    I really m speechless and that is rare! x

  67. Narrowminded people!!!!! xxxx

  68. Some people need to be thought manners.

  69. That is a horrible comment to write, y shouldn’t larger people ask for fashion advice do they not deserve to look nice, maybe they are trying to lose weight or have problems losing weight, I know I’m a size 12 and 10 stone but I’m stuck at that weight, can’t lose nothing below that no matter how much I try. People really should think before they comment. X

  70. danniella jaiden mummy felton says:

    im a size 14. b4 i fell preg with my daughter i was a size 8 i went up to size 16 through the pregnancy and back down to a 10 after i had her. i am now a size 14 because of my ashtma. i get put on steriods from docs coz when i get cold or chest infection my chest gets weak so they give me them to boost it up. one of the side effects off them is weight gain. so i think it is bang out of order for people to slag big women off ecsp if they dont know why they are big every1 has a reason but people just jump without knowing.

    -mika – big girls are beautiful xxxxxxx

  71. This comment is absolutly disgusting! For a mother to speak like that teaches her children that it is ok to judge others by their weight, she might as well say it’s ok to judge others by thier skin color, national origin, sexual orientation or religion! Children are not born to hate they learn it and she is teaching her children to be judgmental, hateful, superficial adults. Its not how a person looks that is important it is how they act and this womans actions make her the ugliest type of person there is!

  72. Well love I love being a beached whale thank you very much!!

  73. I was outraged by this comment after the first couple of lines and had to stop reading it before imploding from so much narrow-mindedness!

    I’m a size 16/18 (had to use a converter *g*) with larger boobs. I had several health-checks, I’m as healthy as I can be, except for my thyroid glands that aren’t working good enough, but still just within the acceptable range… But I wouldn’t even consider commenting on another person’s weight – her clothes, yes; her weight, no!

    Interestingly enough, it is my mum who suggested the most that I should lose some weight. I guess, this because she was skinny when she was my age and only gained weight during the two pregnancies and has since tried to lose it again. I love my mum for the person she is, and I think she is beautiful because she radiates charisma. =)

    People come in all forms and sizes, and just as we accept that people have individual personalities, we should also accept that we all have individual body frames. =)

  74. why not i think no matter what size you are everyone has the right to look nice x

  75. size doesnt really matter tbh, if u want to look good u deserve to, im only a size 12 but after having coley i was in size 16 clothes, i think its horrible how certain shops dont do bigger sizes xx

  76. Anyone can look stylish and beautiful no matter what size you are! Its all about finding what goes with the shap you have xx

  77. Its sad how many people who act like this are out there!!! Iv always been big and always had nasty remarks and comments made at me. Even when I lost 9 stone and became a size 12/14 some people still called me fat! This girl is a silly girl who’s going to have a shap shock when she enters the real world!! X

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