I was 18, alone and with a little baby. Along came a man, beautiful handsome and I thought I had won the lottery, as I am not exactly Claudia Schiffer and he was interested in me. I must have done something good that day. We got together and he was the sweetest man ever, people thought he was amazing, everyone accept my mum. She said there was something not quite right and she couldn’t put her finger on it. Little did I know one day she would be proven right. We got engaged much to mums dismay but she let me do it, she tried hard to say I was too young.
She had to let me make my own choices. My wedding day came and the smile on my face was massive, but they say a smile can hide a thousand sins. I so wish she would have tried one more time to get me to change my mind. All I needed was for her to ask me once more and it could all have been over.
Behind closed doors was a different matter, I was bruised and battered, my heat was breaking from the constant taunts of ” Your fat, your ugly, your no good at being a mum or a wife”. I didnt no where to go, I wore black and things that covered my body in all heats and why? So people didnt see, as long as they saw my smile, they didnt see the torture, the knife to my throat, the pain behind my eyes. He decided that we wanted another baby as my first wasnt his and me being young thought this will change him and we tried but no baby came. We went to the GP, they said I couldnt have any more babies and this made him mad. But he didnt touch me, I thought this was strrange but then I was to face a mothers worse nightmare.
My 18 month old baby knocked over a cup and spilt his drink, then the torture I had to suffer, she had to too. He hit her and pulled her and bruised her. Threw her into her bad and then locked her into her room and tied it shut, so she couldn’t get out. My baby was screaming for me, I fought my way threw and got her and ran and ran and ran. I got to my mum’s house and we broke free. I ended up in a mother and baby unit and the social services came and they did NOTHING. That is right they never went to see him, never pressed charges, nothing it was all forgotten as I had left him. It haunts me even 13 years on. It still haunts my baby girl. I have to stop writing now as I cant see through the tears it is still that emotional.
This post is an anonymous post by a mum who wished to share her story on the blog. I have full permission to post this.
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well done for getting away. u are truly an amazing woman and mother. x
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well done for getting the strength to get away hun!!
i hope you can carry on with your life and put all this behind you! =] xx
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good on you for getting away, i hope you can carry on and out it all behind you – something should have been done. Honey for all the torture he put you though, i think YOU should press charges, if you are up to it. he assaulted not only you but your daughter. I know it is easier said then done.
You ARE a good mother and i bet you are far from ugly..
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Well done for plucking up the courage to run xx
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Well done for getting out, you are one strong lady x x
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U done the hardest thing ever but also the best by getting away from him, well done u
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Aww this blog is so sad. I hope whoever it is realises their own strength in getting themselves and their daughter out of that situation.x there are some Nast pieces of work out there.
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so glad you got away!
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i think its disgusting social services never saw him!
but more importantly well done you for breaking free and getting you and your child to safety
x
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u did amazing getting away from that sick animal. how social services never did f all is just beyond me. u and ur baby is free from him, enjoy ur life now and stay strong xx
How brave of you to finally break free of the monster & run! Well done hun, now you concerntrate on turning those sad memories into happy ones of a better future for you & your child! xx
I’m so glad you were brave enough to break free and runaway… massive hugs!! xxxx
well done for sharing hun, and for getting away you did the right thing.. social services should av done something thats terrible.. forget all the bad meories hun and concentrate on you and your daughters life, all the best for you both.. big hugs xx
well done so glad u got away, great for being so brave!
Well done for being so brave …. True inspiration xx so glad u got away and sorry it still haunts u and ur girly xxx